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May God give you comfort and allow you to find peace in this difficult time for you and your family. I'm so sorry for your loss.

~Carol

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Peter, please accept my sincerest condolences on the loss of your wife. I cannot imagine how difficult this must be for you, and I pray that you will get the answers you need.

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my deepest condolences to you, your boys and family. I recognize your wife's screen name and recall enjoying her posts. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. Thank you for sharing your wife's passing with us.

Take care,

Lorraine

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Peter,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Thank you for having the strength to share your story with all of us.

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I would like to share my condolensces as well. I am very, very sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing the information with us.

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I am so sorry for your loss Peter. My prayers are with you and your family.

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Thank you for all the prayers and well wishes We are doing well My hope is that this thread has helped or at least made aware some of the more sublime aspects of this surgery. I have learned one important lesson in this . I did not listen to my wife closely enough and I was not appreciative enough of all she did when I was not home. I took for granted all she did and that is a regret I will always have. Life is so precious and when it is gone it makes you see what you were missing. I have learned to take each day for what it gives you. I wish all the best for everyone on this board and I hope you cherish what you have. I still do not have the final death certificate but I will keep you posted.

Peter

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Thanks again for posting this Peter. I'm glad you guys are doing well. I hope things get easier and that you find out some answers soon.

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Thank you for keeping in touch with us Peter. I am sure you know that she deeply struggled with the decisions she faced. She faced her uncertainty with courage, grace, and dignity. There isn't a day I don't think of her and realize just how blessed I am. I sincerely appreciate your open mindedness about the surgery and hope that you will be able to find strength in her spirit because she lives on in this forum as a reminder to everyone what we all face. Thank you for all your time to post Peter.

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