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This is a question i have been to embarrassed to ask at the suppport group so I hope people will give me some feed back> has any had a problem performing oral sex after they were banded. I'm afraid that it will be something I can no longer do for my Fiance because of the gag reflex. Has anyone had any issues in that department since being banded? :welldoneclap:

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This is a question i have been to embarrassed to ask at the suppport group so I hope people will give me some feed back> has any had a problem performing oral sex after they were banded. I'm afraid that it will be something I can no longer do for my Fiance because of the gag reflex. Has anyone had any issues in that department since being banded? :welldoneclap:
Not at all! No problem in fact as you get smaller you will like ALL of the things you will be able to perform better.:Banane53:

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i have been thinking about this since my bandind date. So is it safe to swallow? B/C my hubbys cums a lot,..its a slidder right,. ( not to b funny) but it wont fill my pouch,.. right??

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I'm w/ Heatherz- as you get smaller, it makes it better- for you and him! :biggrin: I have never had a problem w/ gag reflux before or after surgery, unless they like to help out with the "head-push".... Have fun with it! Enjoy being SEXY!! :tongue2:

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Oh I am so glad you asked this. I was thinking about this the other day on whether or not its safe to swallow. Haha would never ask my doctor that!

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I thought, perhaps, the title of this thread was about whether or not you'll be able to contort yourself in certain positions to perform oral sex- I didn't expect it to be whether or not it's okay to swallow. LOL! The only liquids you should avoid are beer and soda. Everything else is okay, as far as I know.

The band doesn't give you a gag reflex. That isn't how the band works. The band can make you PB if you eat too much, but that's entirely different from a gag reflex. A gag reflex is a reflex contraction of the back of the throat,[1] evoked by touching the soft palate. The band is around your stomach...you gag when something touches the back of your throat.

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well ladies, im 5 months most post op and much to the delight of my boyfriend, the band causes no problems with oral sex. have fun girls and just remember its unladylike to spit.LMAO!!

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saw this thread and got to laughing. I'm not gay so can't really say on the gag reflex on that aspect but when I am brushing my teeth/tongue I've always gagged pretty bad. After the banding I don't gag near as much or atleast as hard as I did before when brushing.

Wife was reading this thread along with me and is a nurse. She worked in a fertility clinic for a while and said that if a man ejacu-loads' (I added that), that he should probably see a doctor. Usually men that have mass loads tend to have low sperm counts. Either way enjoy the protein:drool:

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Ejacu-loads... hilarious. Uhhgg. that "stuff" gives me a stomach ache. I'll do the dirty deed, but it's going down the sink!

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Ejacu-loads... hilarious. Uhhgg. that "stuff" gives me a stomach ache. I'll do the dirty deed, but it's going down the sink!

poor girl how else will you get your Protein now?

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Ewww, I think of them as sex boogers.....sorry :puke:It grosses me out, don't mind doin it, but not in my mouth thank you. :crying:

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Aww. Come on Abby spitters are quitters. Lol

wish i could talk my wife into that

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