plz urgent help

[dosh 0]

am new here & i hope u treat me as sis

am dosh,24 years old,weight 140kg:( ,hight170

will be banded this tuesday 253 ,done all the test & gon through pre op diet & i cheat little bit :"(

i was exciting b4 but now am realy afriad to not scusses some frnd says it's no use ,don't imagen u'll lost 72 kg or more keep n ur mind around 20kg maximam coz i love sweets but am not eating alot , guys realy it can b only 20 kg, i went 2 another dr & he sugesst bypass will be better,but am not cofortable with t ,i think lapband will b more safe

am v.depressed & confused wat 2 do 2 move on or 2 cancle :smile:

plz help me 2 figure out :cheers2:

[sfeiner 2]

You will do fine. Everybody gets nervous as surgery approaches. And everyone gets depressed at the thought of losing their best friend "food". Why don't you go to before and after pictures. That should make you feel better.

[kbinaz 0]

It is common to second guess yourself. Stick with your decision and then do everything your doctor tells you and follow the rules and you will do fine. We all worry that we are going to be 'the one' that fails. And clearly all of us don't! If you commit to doing what you are supposed to do you will do fine! Good luck!

[triser72 0]

dosh:

take heart and stay in the game! It's your body and your life - don't lose faith in yourself 2 days before the big day! On Feb. 25, I asked a friend/colleague if she had any regrets regarding lapband surgery - she said "only that I didn't do earlier in my life". That was a page turner for me. The results excite me, the surgery scares me to death,.....the opportunity to live my life the way I have always wished - that is what helps me stay in the game!

[dosh 0]

hey sweets,,am already stick in the game :sneaky:

i just did't yesterday ,it wasn't that easy they took 2 hrs & a half

they ffound some deffculities 2 reach the stomch:)

but it worth realy i have v.great feelings,& am realy glade 2 do t:thumbup:

thanks alot:wub:

[Chickie 15]

Congrats Dosh!