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I am a bit embarrassed to ask this question but here it goes.

How long do you have to wait after surgery before having sex again...???

Just curious to know..Thanks in advance.:shades_smile:

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lol dont be! That was the LAST thing on my mind.. at the time!! lol We waited till almost 2 weeks post op. As long as your not in pain I assume its okay!! it was for me.. HEE HEE

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We waited until my staples came out, about 10 days.

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As soon as you are comfortable!

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We waited until my staples came out, about 10 days.

Staples? never heard of anyone getting staples. Did you have a lap band or a gastric bypass?

As far as when -- whenever it doesn't hurt when you try. I didn't even think about sex for 2 weeks myself - but then I had a lot of port pain.

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Staples? never heard of anyone getting staples. Did you have a lap band or a gastric bypass?

Some surgeons use staples to close the incisions.

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We waited until I got home.

Seriously, I felt fine the day I was discharged. I stayed overnight at the hospital and by the time I got home the next day was able to go for a walk and participate in "other" activities. Post op day 4 was the only day I really felt bad. Otherwise, if you are comfortable and don't get too "crazy", there are really no restrictions.

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Well we shall we say "enjoyed each others company" within four days, but I wasn't that "active" of a participant. I was in the mood about 2 weeks after and was the initiator and my port hurt pretty bad the next day, working those abdominals wasn't such a great idea:lol:

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I asked the same thing a few days ago and I heard different responses. One person said she waited up to 5 weeks and most people simply said they waited until they felt better. I am personally going to wait for at least a month, because I think it is going to be something I regret afterwards due to all of the ab work involved. Well...ab work is required on my part if I want to have a...um...religious experience. My surgery is Nov. 18th! Good luck!:)

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