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He has known for years what my weight is and was. BTW, our 10 year anniversary is in September of this year!! My highest was 235 and the lowest I have been after high school was 182, but I am now at my lowest. I do weigh less than him now. I can even get in his jeans.

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My husband did not know of my weight before the band. He knows now that I weigh less than him but does not know exactly.

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My husband has no idea how high my weight has been. He's very small & I would be mortified still if he knew how much I weigh. It doesn't help that he's been ill lately & has lost 35 lbs off a 5'4" frame! I think I weigh 100 lbs. more than he. UGGGG!

Thanks all. I love this site!

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Mine never knew my weight, but since he was not supportive of my getting the band, I told him. I thought it was pretty obvious at 5'0' and 263 pounds, but I guess not so I told him.

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I told my dh a couple of weeks after surgery. It was hard for me to tell ANYONE how heavy I was (am).

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Made mine take an educated guess pre-banding and boy was he way off! lol..He's 6'3" and 200lbs so it was always a big deal to me....now of course he knows and he's been so proud of me lately I dont mind talking to him about it!! It's almost liberating being able to say it out loud to him and my family...on the other hand I had no problem telling you guys, cause your all so great, dont judge and love me anyway! :)

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My husband did not know my weight until last weekend. Weighing in at 362 lbs before the band he didn't even guess I weighed so much. I remember at one point before the band he made some comment that I weighed less than his 240 lbs. I just let him keep that thought. He did eventually find out I weighed more than him but nothing specific. He has a few pounds to lose and I made a joke about him not being able to lose those few pounds before I am at goal. He isn't even trying until I catch up with his weight (he likes to procrastinate unpleasant tasks). Anyway I forgot I had never told him and let it slip over the weekend. I figured if everyone on LBT knew and the rest of my family knew, he might as well too. It was no big deal. Best wishes, Teresa

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