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whats good people ... been reading the thread and i love this thread... my life has changed a lot since the band ... most of which is sex drive ... and sex life...

does it ever get away from any of you guys.... (out of control)

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I did not read all the commenst. But to the original poster, I always had a very good sex drive. I was always ready and as I started to loose weight I lost it and its still gone. My husband is getting more and more angry. I hope I get it back one day.

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Haha...supposedly for every 20 lbs you lose, you gain back an inch of your penis that was lost in the fat. Bonus! LOL

Hey that's true! Everytime I pass the mirror I think "hey! where did that come from?" :tongue:

I tell my wife, "Hey! doesn't this look bigger?" She just rolls her eyes... :tongue_smilie:

But my sex drive has increased many times over so far. I think it's the self confidence issue fading away. When you start looking in the mirror and seeing a body from yesteryear and think, "damn - I look pretty good again" it drives the bus so to speak.

Brad

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I have always had a healthy appetite (for food and nookie). That hasn't changed since surgery, but my husband wants it twice as often as before. The loss of inches has removed some of the padding that was in the way of deeper penetration, and my flexibility is amazing now. It is also much faster for me to reach climax now :frown:

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I'm sooo glad I found this thread! I thought I was the only 28 year old with little to no sex drive! I hope to God my sex drive returns. When I was dating my husband we would have sex a least 5x a week multiple times a day, and now we're lucky to get it in once every few weeks! I hate it, hopefully it will all change after we are both banded.

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I havent had sex since I was way bigger, I used this as a way to kind of punish myself for getting so heavy.. now that I've dropped 75 lbs, im looking at guys like.. oooh do able, oooh very doable.. and omg im going to pounce on him.. I'm sure it won't be much longer before I break my good girl habbit..:party:

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This thread is cracking me up. But one thing I can vouch for to all the guys is that as you lose lbs, you gain inches, and the same the other direction. I used to be ~150 lbs lighter that I am today, and I still remember how it "used to be". I'm getting banded soon... so hopefully I'll drop 150 (or more) and relive the glory days and some.

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