Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

NJ February 2008 Chat



Recommended Posts

Woooohoooooo look at you! Fantastic Pat....oh I'm definately looking forward to when I can get that done. Scarey surgery but, well worth the results! You look awesome!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

OMG Pat---you brought tears to my eyes!! You look amazing! The thought that I might actually look "normal" again, has always just been a dream. As was the weight loss to be honest. Now the majority of the weight is gone, but I am left with this skin, and yes some fat under the skin, and it just hangs, and leaves this huge bubble bulge under all my clothes. I am tall, so finding shirts long enough to cover it is a challenge----I just feel deformed. In a way it was less deformed feeling when I was fat, it blended in. Now I have no hips left, my legs are pretty thin---I would be ok with me, if I did not have this belly issue---and it is NOT a minor issue. It is deflated enough that if I try wearing snug jeans, it bulges around the seams, and makes me look like I have an ass on my front! Now how is that for a visual???

Yep your pics solidify it---I am seeing a Dr. THIS week! TY for sharing with us....

HUGS~~

Kat

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Pat, I only wish mine was no worse than that--hell I would be happy with that as an after!! Mine hangs----I can pick it up and manipulate it--roll it up, squish it----it is truly indescribably FUGLY!

You did get beautiful results though---I am so happy for you!

Kat

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Thank you Kat, but it was horrible to me, I just wish the TT had lifted my inner thighs just a tad, just enough to pull the skin a little tighter ;),

So glad it's behind me and looking forward to getting out of these compression garments and to stop itching, LOL.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

OK, where is everyone this morning? I've been a bucket mouth today, bored I'm telling you, I'll bet I've done 15 posts today, LOL.

Gotta get started with the "fake" chili, hope you all have a "super" day.

Hugs

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Good Morning,

Pat you look incredible, really incrediable...my stars woman..CONGRATUALTIONS. I'm still saying ouch to myself though LOL. Your so sexy :biggrin:

Kat you go girl !!!!!

Well nothing new today... no stupid bowl party lol, I mean GO GIANTS !!! lol.

You all have a wonderful week and behave :biggrin:

TTYS :rolleyes: Eileen

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Gooooo PATS hahaha Sorry Eileen....we're from NE so we're NE fans. It's certainly going to be a good game though. I just can't stand all the yelling the guys do...what the heck for? Not like anyone really cares or will it change something but, they yell all the same. I guess I'm just not an excitable person for football games anyway hahaha *wink*

I typed a few things but, decided not to post it.....the guys made me upset last night...trying to get over it but, when I type it I get more bothered by it so I'm trying to just let it go. You ever have those days where you're completely thrown off by something? Lets just say...if I could afford it, I'd be paying attention to ME and pamper myself with a nice, relaxing massage. Yeap I need to be practicing my Reiki today....only I can make my day a good one....my day is what I reflect. (Oh yea even the Reiki Master has to practice this stuff and it's not always easy!)

Anyway Pat you really do look great. I can't wait to see pictures when you're all healed up. I had heard it takes a few months for the swelling to go completely down in the tummy area. What did your doc tell you? Just curious.

Gotta hit the shower.....read a book for an appointment I have tomorrow with a "Life coach". It's a project I'm helping my Reiki Master/Chiropractor (yeap she's both lol) with. She's taught some coaches who now need students/clients to learn with. Yeap I'm a guinea pig but, I'll be learning more on how to help others too in the meantime :) Also have a little running around to do today too before the game.

Have a great day everyone. Love you!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

i too look much worse than you did Pat. I'm looking into surgery, but it will be a long way off. $$$ is my big issue. I don't think insurance will pay for it, and I don't have the money for it right now. ~Mandy

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Mandy, Insurance will usually pay for at least the apron removal if you have issues with skin rashes and irritations in the folds. I believe for most insurances there has to be documented occurances of it and then they will at least pay for the removal. People then opt to pay the extra for the TT part. Not sure sure on the breast lift...don't think that would be covered but, I can tell ya the same thing happens with the skin there too so it might be possible. When it comes time for me I'll certainly ask about that lol. Might as well get the whole thing done if I'm going to go under anyway :eek: We'll see though because I'm going to want to wait until I can pay for the TT portion too.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Mandy, I'm surprised, for some reason, I thought you had already had a TT, maybe it's because you look so good :lol:.

Well ladies, drum roll please, I finally weigh below...nobody's listening are they...150, 149 to be exact. Maybe I'm not giving my ps enough credit, maybe he took off alot more lbs than I realized..big smile here.

Still have Fluid, so I hopefully will be down a little more, if not, it's just a number, the way I feel is more important. Thanks to a little pep talk from someone dear to me last night, not mentioning any names SW, but I do feel great.

Taking mom to lunch, TTYL

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • Bashbee91

      Hey guys new to the process looking forward to this new life. 
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Bugg

      Hi everyone! I’m brand new here. I just went through all my pre-op requirements per my insurance company and now everything has been submitted and I’m just waiting for final approval and my surgery date. I’ve been doing research, watching YouTube videos, TikTok’s, ect.. trying to prepare my mind and what to expect so I’ll be ready for the surgery. I was so sure and so set and so ready and excited. However, now that I’ve done everything & it’s almost here, I am sooooooo scared! I know why I want it bc I’ve tried everything and I just don’t feel like I can lose weight by myself. I’m tired of being overweight my entire life. I’m miserable, but I keep psyching myself out afraid of GERD bc I know how that can be and I don’t want to have to get a bypass after already gaining the courage to even get VSG. I’m scared of complications like I’mgoing to regret doing it and be depressed that I didn’t just be more disciplined and try again to lose the weight on my own even sitting here typing this knowing in my mind i just can’t and don’t possess the discipline. I’m also afraid I won’t be able to handle the restrictions of the sleeve. What do I eat? I don’t know how to eat healthy really and don’t enjoy healthy food. I don’t know how to do this! I feel so defeated!Someone tell me they felt anything similar to this or am I not ready? I thought I was. I am so tired of being sick and tired and so tired of myself and so tired of being stuck and stuck in this body and somebody different on the outside from what I feel inside. I just want to ball up and cry.
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • buildabetteranna

      over 20 lbs down since4 the pre surgery diet and surgery on the 14th
      · 1 reply
      1. Selina333

        Yay!! Congrats. I know how good that feels. 🤩

    • Jenopolis

      Had a sleeve in 2017, lost over 100 pounds. Had a DS surgery this year (2025) for more sustainable weight loss. 🤞
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • buildabetteranna

      The 14th was my day. I am home and recovery is going pretty smooth. They even let me walk out of the hospital. Picture of me in recovery curtesy of my boyfriend lol. 

      · 3 replies
      1. DaisyChainOz

        Glad it went well!! Wishing you a speedy recovery and wonderful success!! 🤗

      2. buildabetteranna

        Thank you ❤️

      3. Selina333

        Neat you have a pic of this day! I was sooo happy to get my surgery. It was well worth it! And I'm not even near my goal. I had surgery Dec. 2!

  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×