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Okay so I had my surgery December the 21st 2007. I know I know right before Christmas!! But that's a totally different story!! I did okay...I was allergic to my pain pills so I had to go cold turkey on pain but I believe that it was for the best. I had my first check up last thursday and I have lost 21 lbs and I have already came of my blood pressure pills!! What a relief that was. If anything about my life was worrysome it was those blasted blood pressure pills at 19. My friends were always so nervous and worried about me and that wasn't a great feeling. Don't get me wrong it showed that they cared but I felt like a burden on them. But the not eating much thing has been rough. I was an emotional eater and during my first 2 weeks I went through some rough stuff and lots of stress because I took my finals the day before surgery and I was waiting on grades...rough let me tell you! But everything turned out great!! I am so excited that I found this site! I have been needing to get peoples opinnion and stories for support and comfort and this is such a blessing!! If anyone has any great recipes or wants to share their experience with me I am more than welcoming it!! Thanks so much!!

Ashley

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Hi,

Reading your post makes me feel great. My surgery is scheduled for next Wed. and I am a nervous wreck. Of course the two week liquid diet I have been on since Jan. 2 has not helped my mental state at all. But, all is well I am working on breaking the devilish hold food has over me and when I do finally get to eat again, I am going to force myself to make better choices than I have in the past. Keep smiling and just take it one meal at a time:)

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Hi Ashley, congrats on being banded and finishing your exams. I'm being banded next Tuesday (5 more sleeps!) and it is great to hear that you are happy and feeling good.

Keep us posted,

Jen

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Hi! My name is Maria and I am going for my first visit with the Dr, tomorrow to begin the process of getting ready for the lap band. I am scared to death!! I am afraid of dying. I guess we all are. I want a permanent change in my life regarding my weight. I am so glad to have found this site where we are all in the same big boat. Maria

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Don't be scared!! I was so relaxed the day of my surgery! You just have to have faith in your doctor and the Lord! I feel ya on the permanent change girl!! lol I am so that way!! Welcome and if ya ever need any advice or want to know something just hit me up!

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Okay so I had my surgery December the 21st 2007. I know I know right before Christmas!! But that's a totally different story!! I did okay...I was allergic to my pain pills so I had to go cold turkey on pain but I believe that it was for the best. I had my first check up last thursday and I have lost 21 lbs and I have already came of my blood pressure pills!! What a relief that was. If anything about my life was worrysome it was those blasted blood pressure pills at 19. My friends were always so nervous and worried about me and that wasn't a great feeling. Don't get me wrong it showed that they cared but I felt like a burden on them. But the not eating much thing has been rough. I was an emotional eater and during my first 2 weeks I went through some rough stuff and lots of stress because I took my finals the day before surgery and I was waiting on grades...rough let me tell you! But everything turned out great!! I am so excited that I found this site! I have been needing to get peoples opinnion and stories for support and comfort and this is such a blessing!! If anyone has any great recipes or wants to share their experience with me I am more than welcoming it!! Thanks so much!!

Ashley

Lets keep in touch Ash! I was banded 12/27 and I'm in the same boat, needing people to talk to. The last 2 weeks have been have been so hard because of the emotional need to eat so I know how you feel!

If you are on myspace MySpace.com - www.myspace.com/243838745 <---thats me :)

Or you can PM me here! :hug:

-Candi O.

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