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Kat, you know having the lapband surgery is personal. I would not tell anyone that you don't want to. People who do not have a weight problem (and never will) tend to say stupid things like "Why don't you just stop eating?" If that were so easy, we would have this surgery. Only 5% of the population is successful and losing and KEEPING it off. Its just not that easy as you well know. Tell them you are on a special diet if they ask, it's none of their business anyway.

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I only told a few people before I had it - my immediate family, my boss, 2 best friends. My husband was (and is) so supportive it's ridiculous! Once I really started losing weight (80 pounds as of this morning), and people started noticing, I was honest when asked. A few of my friends are now looking into having the band done as a result of my success. It's not that I'm so wonderful at it, it's just that they see the results and realize that they can do it too! I am not sorry that I tell anyone I had surgery - if they think less of me for having done it, too bad for them.

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You know they have particular birth control pills that allow you to have your period only once every few months, right? Once you're at a healthy weight and no longer at risk for blood clots...assuming your religion permits, ask your doctor about Seasonale. Issue solved.

We have been trying to have a baby for 4 years. The Dr. said I was just to fat to get pregnant. stupid Dr. lol I also have PCOS. So, as an added bonus for getting healthy, I might get pregnant too. That would be so great.

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