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My surgery was supposed to be July 10/24. I spent hours waiting at the hospital only to be told that there was an emergency in the OR and my surgery had to be cancelled. Super bummed about it. I was told I may have to wait until beginning of September now. I get it, these things happen but i just spent 3 weeks on a liquid diet and rearrached my whole life to do this. 😞

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Ugh, I can only imagine -- waiting for surgery is tough enough, but having it postponed so suddenly must be really rough on the psyche. I'm an anxious person by nature, I totally understand how much this could be stressing you out.

On the bright side, go you! Look at how much you lost already pre-op! ❤️

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I’m so sorry. That would be such a letdown. Try not to let it get you off track though. You already went through the rough part of detoxing from all the stuff you crave. If you stick to a lower carb diet it should be that much easier for you the next time.

Also, I would ask if they can keep your number handy in case they have any cancellations.

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Thank you for your replies. They do have my number in case of cancellations so that is a plus.

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That's so cruel and everyone is so scared that it could happen to them. I think I might have had a melt down. I feel for you because we want this surgery so badly and 3 weeks on a liquid diet is brutal. Biggest hugs sent your way.

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36 minutes ago, summerseeker said:

That's so cruel and everyone is so scared that it could happen to them. I think I might have had a melt down. I feel for you because we want this surgery so badly and 3 weeks on a liquid diet is brutal. Biggest hugs sent your way.

To be honest, I feel like I'm having a week long melt down over it and just giving myself a week's grace to work through my feelings. Thanks for your comment.

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Sorry to hear you've had to go through this. My surgery is in October and I'm a bundle of nerves. I've been put on a 12 week liquid diet, and I couldn't imagine going through all this and then having to reschedule. Good Luck to you!

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Oh no! 12 weeks is so long! Now that I think of it, this will likely be me also since I have no desire to completely opt out of the liquid diet in case a cancelation happens with someone else. I'm currently doing the shakes and a cup of low calorie Soup. Thank you for your message. 🤍

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Any news on a new surgery date? 🤞

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2 minutes ago, Jaye Apples said:

Nothing yet.

Darn it. Well I’ve been crossing my fingers for you that something comes up soon.

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That's sweet, thank you. ❤️

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Anything yet?

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7 hours ago, Jaye Apples said:

Nothing yet.

Did they not put you back on the schedule at all? I would’ve figured they would give you an appointment but then call you if they had a sooner one due to a cancellation. Also, At this point you have been on that diet for 6 weeks, right? I would call and make sure that it’s okay with your doctor that you continue on with that same diet. Some of these diets are only designed to be short term.

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