rrs 2 Posted February 9, 2024 I had a gastric sleeve, and it has ruined my life. I’m dizzy, exhausted, anxious, can reach my Fluid or Protein goals, and my body is falling apart. I’ve lost my job because of being so sick. I think I was poorly advised to have this surgery. I know that they can’t un do it, but looking for any info on a doctor who would help stretch the sleeve, or even as drastic as transplant. I have been to the ER, I have a counselor and am newly on psych meds all to help cope, but nothing is enough. Concerned about worsening SI thoughts, my team is aware but says there is nothing they can do. I just want my life back. Looking for anyone who is willing to do a Hail Mary. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NickelChip 1,323 Posted February 9, 2024 How long has it been since you had the sleeve surgery? How much weight have you lost and how rapidly? How much food/calories are you able to consume daily, and also how much Water? Are you improving slowly or getting worse?I think these details might help people with offering some advice, especially if anyone else on here has been through a similar situation. 2 KathyLev and Arabesque reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
catwoman7 11,220 Posted February 9, 2024 unfortunately, the sleeve is not reversible - they remove 75-80% of your stomach and throw it out. However, if you're really early out, I wouldn't start worrying about this yet. You could be dealing with buyer's remorse (common during the first few weeks after surgery) or a minor complication that is likely "fixable". I agree with NickelChip - we need a lot more information to comment on your situation. 2 Arabesque and KathyLev reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BabySpoons 617 Posted February 9, 2024 12 hours ago, rrs said: I know that they can’t un do it, but looking for any info on a doctor who would help stretch the sleeve Don't worry. From what I've read, in time, after your new tummy heals up you should be able to stretch that new tummy back out and regain all your lost weight. No doctor needed. But I have a feeling, over time you may change your mind. 🤔 2 catwoman7 and KathyLev reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
KathyLev 285 Posted February 9, 2024 Have you just started the psych meds? They take awhile to kick in . ( like around 6 weeks ) Maybe then , you won't be as anxious . Good luck and don't be afraid to take advantage of therapy Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SleeveToBypass2023 2,661 Posted February 11, 2024 Give your meds a chance to kick in. Do some therapy. Try eating some soft foods and drinking your Protein for now (protein shakes, protein gatorade). What do you mean when you say your body is falling apart? How far out from surgery are you? The symptoms you're describing sound pretty normal the first few weeks out from surgery. They do get better. If you're further out, it may be because you aren't meeting your Fluid and protein goals. How close are you to hitting them? What are you eating and how often? We need more information before we can offer any real advice. I will say that there isn't any doctor that will do a surgery to stretch your stomach back out, so that's out. Instead of sabotaging your surgery, let's see if we can come up with some suggestions to help you through this. 3 Spinoza, Arabesque and KathyLev reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Spinoza 1,453 Posted February 11, 2024 7 hours ago, SleeveToBypass2023 said: Give your meds a chance to kick in. Do some therapy. Try eating some soft foods and drinking your Protein for now (protein shakes, Protein gatorade). What do you mean when you say your body is falling apart? How far out from surgery are you? The symptoms you're describing sound pretty normal the first few weeks out from surgery. They do get better. If you're further out, it may be because you aren't meeting your Fluid and protein goals. How close are you to hitting them? What are you eating and how often? We need more information before we can offer any real advice. I will say that there isn't any doctor that will do a surgery to stretch your stomach back out, so that's out. Instead of sabotaging your surgery, let's see if we can come up with some suggestions to help you through this. 😍 1 SleeveToBypass2023 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites