Rdy4Change 49 Posted February 19, 2023 On 2/16/2023 at 2:20 PM, Semalnar said: So today has been. A struggle for me. Part of it could be my incisions pain because the way the ab muscles were stitched it pulls when I'm moving or upright. Some of it could be cooking for my family while I get to enjoy Jello, broth and yogurt. But today I have been on a roller coster emotionally. It's hard not to push ourselves too much. I've had a few moments that really put me in check, where I was overexerting myself. Have to remind yourself that this was a major surgery. Take time to heal! 1 1 Semalnar and Erin18 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SirKat 28 Posted February 20, 2023 Made it through 1 week of pre-op diet. 1 week until surgery! honestly this has not been so bad, which gives me hope I can manage the post-op ramp up plan well. I haven’t fully avoided caffeine - one of the shakes I drink is a coffee one with caffeine, which I think has helped this not be as bad as it might be. Down 9 lbs! 2 Quetta89 and Erin18 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Erin18 143 Posted February 20, 2023 On 2/14/2023 at 9:33 PM, Ttwaweru said: How long did it take to get a surgery date? I just started today by submitting my papers for a consultation. My insurance already approved it before anything. I just had to do the requirements that the bariatric center requires (of course require by insurance too). Monthly appointments Nutritionist 2 times Psych eval Fitness class Behavior modification class A bunch of testings, blood work, ultrasound, xray, ekg I believe Once I completed everything, I thought I had to wait for my approval call, I waited until January and no one called so january 9th I think it was, I called the bariatric center and they said I didn't need to wait for an approval call that my surgery already approves it. They transferred me to the surgeons office and set up my surgery and post op appointment that day. I started back in june, so 7 months to get my surgery date. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Erin18 143 Posted February 20, 2023 I can't believe that tomorrow is already my surgery day. I'm getting really scared. There's this one thought that's really scaring me and I'm positive everyone gets this thought too. But ahhh! I'm so scared! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Quetta89 49 Posted February 20, 2023 My insurance already approved it before anything. I just had to do the requirements that the bariatric center requires (of course require by insurance too). Monthly appointments Nutritionist 2 times Psych eval Fitness class Behavior modification class A bunch of testings, blood work, ultrasound, xray, ekg I believe Once I completed everything, I thought I had to wait for my approval call, I waited until January and no one called so january 9th I think it was, I called the bariatric center and they said I didn't need to wait for an approval call that my surgery already approves it. They transferred me to the surgeons office and set up my surgery and post op appointment that day. I started back in june, so 7 months to get my surgery date. I think where you go is different. Once I went to my first appointment my doctor gave me my surgery date that same day. I had to see a nutritionist every monthMy primary doctor for clearanceSee a phycologist See a pulmonologist for breathing, and do Endoscopy with the surgeon. Now I'm cleared for all just waiting on the clearance for my primary.Sent from my moto g power (2022) using BariatricPal mobile app 1 Erin18 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Semalnar 7 Posted February 20, 2023 18 minutes ago, Erin18 said: I can't believe that tomorrow is already my surgery day. I'm getting really scared. There's this one thought that's really scaring me and I'm positive everyone gets this thought too. But ahhh! I'm so scared! It will be ok, I was kinda scared too but everything went well. It's natural to be scared, I mean thus isn't like getting a filling, its a major surgery. So it's totally ok to be a bit scared and nervous but complications are rare so typically everything is good. You'll be fine and your doctor will do a great job 🙏 1 Erin18 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Demetria G. 8 Posted February 20, 2023 37 minutes ago, Erin18 said: I can't believe that tomorrow is already my surgery day. I'm getting really scared. There's this one thought that's really scaring me and I'm positive everyone gets this thought too. But ahhh! I'm so scared! My surgery date is tomorrow too! We got this! Surprisingly I’m not scared yet.. more-so anxious and ready to get it over with to start the next phase! This sounds crazy BUT my biggest fear is that it won’t work! I know that sounds crazy but it’s a real fear I have. Foe the pre-op all liquid diet I have not cheated, did everything by the book and my weight loss has stalled. I haven’t kiss weight in the past 3 days. So now I have the “what if this doesn’t work” thoughts…. Much luck you tomorrow! Would love to have a buddy and we can check in and support each other since we’re surg twins! 1 Erin18 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rdy4Change 49 Posted February 20, 2023 2 hours ago, Erin18 said: I can't believe that tomorrow is already my surgery day. I'm getting really scared. There's this one thought that's really scaring me and I'm positive everyone gets this thought too. But ahhh! I'm so scared! I found an article about a woman with similar weight and issues I have in Health magazine. I read that multiple times, and thought about it during pre-op at the hospital. It really helped to change my thinking from this is an elective surgery to this is a necessary surgery. Sending positive thoughts for your surgery! 1 Erin18 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Erin18 143 Posted February 21, 2023 18 hours ago, Demetria G. said: My surgery date is tomorrow too! We got this! Surprisingly I’m not scared yet.. more-so anxious and ready to get it over with to start the next phase! This sounds crazy BUT my biggest fear is that it won’t work! I know that sounds crazy but it’s a real fear I have. Foe the pre-op all liquid diet I have not cheated, did everything by the book and my weight loss has stalled. I haven’t kiss weight in the past 3 days. So now I have the “what if this doesn’t work” thoughts…. Much luck you tomorrow! Would love to have a buddy and we can check in and support each other since we’re surg twins! I'm worried that it won't work too, but im more scared that I'm going to die 😱 and leave everyone behind especially my son. Ahhh! Anyways I need to be at the hospital for 9am and it's going on 3:30am. I don't think ill be sleeping. I know I'll keep looking at the clock so I can get in the shower. I too just can't wait until I'm in recovery. I'll definitely be your buddy! Good luck to you as well!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Erin18 143 Posted February 21, 2023 18 hours ago, Quetta89 said: I think where you go is different. Once I went to my first appointment my doctor gave me my surgery date that same day. I had to see a nutritionist every month My primary doctor for clearance See a phycologist See a pulmonologist for breathing, and do Endoscopy with the surgeon. Now I'm cleared for all just waiting on the clearance for my primary. Sent from my moto g power (2022) using BariatricPal mobile app Oh yeah I needed a letter from my primary care doctor too Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NP_WIP 274 Posted February 21, 2023 On 2/20/2023 at 8:53 AM, Demetria G. said: My surgery date is tomorrow too! We got this! Surprisingly I’m not scared yet.. more-so anxious and ready to get it over with to start the next phase! This sounds crazy BUT my biggest fear is that it won’t work! I know that sounds crazy but it’s a real fear I have. Foe the pre-op all liquid diet I have not cheated, did everything by the book and my weight loss has stalled. I haven’t kiss weight in the past 3 days. So now I have the “what if this doesn’t work” thoughts…. Much luck you tomorrow! Would love to have a buddy and we can check in and support each other since we’re surg twins! You will do great, remember the preop diet is not for weight loss but for liver shrinkage. Try not to weight yourself so often and you will see the weight fall off. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Erin18 143 Posted February 22, 2023 Surgery went great. It's a little bit sore where they did bypass. And a little gas I feel. I walked twice so far. I know I should have been walking more Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jennifer26 14 Posted February 22, 2023 3 hours ago, Erin18 said: Surgery went great. It's a little bit sore where they did bypass. And a little gas I feel. I walked twice so far. I know I should have been walking more Congratulations! I am currently in the waiting room for my bypass, so nervous, and hoping nothing goes wrong! 1 1 Erin18 and Semalnar reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Erin18 143 Posted February 22, 2023 2 hours ago, Jennifer26 said: Congratulations! I am currently in the waiting room for my bypass, so nervous, and hoping nothing goes wrong! Let me know how you feel when you get to a room. I have discomfort and I don't know If t's the gas or my stomach Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Erin18 143 Posted February 22, 2023 On 2/20/2023 at 8:53 AM, Demetria G. said: My surgery date is tomorrow too! We got this! Surprisingly I’m not scared yet.. more-so anxious and ready to get it over with to start the next phase! This sounds crazy BUT my biggest fear is that it won’t work! I know that sounds crazy but it’s a real fear I have. Foe the pre-op all liquid diet I have not cheated, did everything by the book and my weight loss has stalled. I haven’t kiss weight in the past 3 days. So now I have the “what if this doesn’t work” thoughts…. Much luck you tomorrow! Would love to have a buddy and we can check in and support each other since we’re surg twins! How did you Night go? It was hard. Just uncomfortable. I'm not sure if what I'm feeling is my stomach or gas, but I do feel like have a giant burp. It just won't com P Share this post Link to post Share on other sites