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How long did you have to wait to resume sex? Did anything feel different? Sorry for asking, I’ve been married 8 yrs and we are still very active…… just curious…. Thanks in advance

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You mean we were supposed to start having sex again?! 😀 I honestly don't remember but I want to say like a month.

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I think we waited at least 4 weeks for the full deed, but we were still intimate in other ways.

My sex drive skyrocketed, so I doubt we waited more than 6 weeks. And I'll just leave it at that! 😈

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I'm not sexually active, but it seems to me that position would be more important than timing.

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8 hours ago, Fingersx said:

How long did you have to wait to resume sex? Did anything feel different? Sorry for asking, I’ve been married 8 yrs and we are still very active…… just curious…. Thanks in advance

So glad you asked. I was wondering the same thing LOL

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On 04/15/2022 at 14:11, Future Sleeve Diva said:






So glad you asked. I was wondering the same thing LOL


Great minds! Lol

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On 04/15/2022 at 06:52, Fingersx said:

How long did you have to wait to resume sex? Did anything feel different? Sorry for asking, I’ve been married 8 yrs and we are still very active…… just curious…. Thanks in advance

So funny! My husband actually asked me this last week. I hadn’t thought about it until he asked, but it’s a legitimately relevant question.

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I’m pretty certain I waited around a month. I’m sure you can figure out ways to make it’ less strenuous if you want to do it sooner but i am on meds that decrease my drive anyways so I was fine waiting.

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I think they told me to wait a month, but we barely made the 2 week mark.

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We made it to the almost 2 week mark

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Did any of you experience vaginal dryness?! I'm three months post-op, and it'slike the Sahara desert down there. It's getting very worrisome because I never had this issue pre-op.

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