Went to the support group, now cold feet?

[GradyCat 3,695]

I think it's only natural to question why we can't "do this on our own" at various times in our lives and even during pre-op WLS appointments. Only you know the answer to that question.

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3 minutes ago, GradyCat said:

Only you know the answer to that question.

I mean, we know why people can't keep their losses off. It's not an individual failure, we're built for weight gain. But otherwise, I agree.

[summerseeker 2,151]

Its hard to make the decision to do this surgery until you know for a fact that you have to get it. I haven't had the easiest ride since surgery and there are a few more like me. For about 3 weeks after surgery, I had buyers remorse and I did buy it myself. Then things turned around a little and got better. I love my new stomach now, I love how little I am able to eat and am growing in confidence in the foods that I can try again. Take your time with the decision, you can always return later if the time is not right for you now. I would say though that you need to listen only to your inner voice. Your husband may be having second thoughts and passing these on to you. Take care and good luck

[Splenda 257]

I think this article gives a very fair view of what life is like with bariatric surgery and a good layman's explanation of how it changes you, beyond just shedding pounds. Read it if you have cold feet.

https://www.nytimes.com/2016/12/27/health/bariatric-surgery.html