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I can't wait to get back to a more enjoyable bedtime routine. :) It isn't so much getting winded as having no drive due to my hatred of my body! Hopefully that will change soon!

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I have been a big girl most of my life and never very comfortable with my body, so i never had regular sex encounters. Thats probably why im single now!?!LOL

I cant wait to be skinnier so I can finally have all this mind blowing, balancing on the excersise ball sex i've been reading about!

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Yah... I love this thread!!! And to think I just bought one of those balls the other day! I'm feelin ya ladies... I have difinitely noticed a big change in my boyfriend and my sex life since i've gained so much weight... It's still great, but not as good as before. I can't wait to get back to my old self and let lose again! Can't Wait!!! Surgery on Dec. 26 and i'm rarin to go!!!

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Awww Gayle you band date is my birthday LOL!!! Wish that was my day!!! Well good luck your band will be a Capricorn so you will have a geniune sweetheart on your hands!!

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Yeah look at all you little pervs!! I knew that would catch you attention LOL!! Just kidding! But I was wondering ladies and gents... Is the sex better after band and some pounds have fell off. I know that I can't wait to have sex once I am thinner LOL!!! I tired of being the "pillow princess" and getting winded when I really wanna ride the hell out of my husband... But I wanna be so freaky with him but the weight restricts me from alot of things and I hate that so much!! I just can't wait to be maybe 40-50 pounds lighter. But I would like feedback from banded and people waiting to be banded.... Like what changed after banding and what you are looking forward to I am so excited and hoping for a January surgery date!! :bounce:I wish it would happen sooner than later!! I am so embarrassed to say it but we are all family here!! But I am so ready to see my vagina when I look down LOL!! Spouses please speak out as well if you have a banded partner how have the "changed" in the bedroom?!?!?

Amen sista!! Throw me around like a ragdoll! Got banded today, cant wait for the bedroom scene this can create!!

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Hm... must look into this exercise ball thing..

Although I bought "The Bean", and popped it on my own!

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Just to throw this out there in case anyone has one and can convince me of a good place for it..

A Sex Swing.. I saw it first on an episode of Sex in the City and I have always wanted one. DH is all for it, but we joked about how we'd have it hanging in our bedroom and when people visit (parents included) they'd flip out. Anyone have one and have a good location for it? :)

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LMAO...High five to Juli and Laura!

My MOJO has never been in question...but yes, sex is fanfuckingtastic since the band. My only complaint is that (and this has gone on since the first time I had sex AFTER the band)...after the first few O's...I feel pain around the port in the muscles. So...after a few good ones, I feel it tighten there. When I first started it was worse. But the attitude is so great. I feel sexier because of exercise...and I am aggressive too! Watch out!

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UHmmmmmmmmmmm I Just made an impulse buy!!!!!! :paranoid

This sex swing was on super duper sale for only $72.. and it said it has 1 attachment to the ceiling that easily disconnects for storage.. so I said OK!!!

Now, since it was impulsive here's my question.. it says it holds up to 400lbs without some other attachment (that's good enough for us!!).. but will my CEILING hold up to 400lbs? How does that work? :)

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LOL you go LAURA!!! Lemme know how it works girl!! Cause I'll be getting one next LOL after I'm banded pf course. And I like that the that you put your legs in the the guy can spread all the way apart... who knows what that's called ?? the girl sits/lays in it with her in the slots and the are movable slots while the man stands and he can move her legs out really far!!! Can't wait till I am REALLLLY flexible!!!

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UHmmmmmmmmmmm I Just made an impulse buy!!!!!! :paranoid

This sex swing was on super duper sale for only $72.. and it said it has 1 attachment to the ceiling that easily disconnects for storage.. so I said OK!!!

Oh HA HA! That is what I call an impulsive buy! :scared: WTG! How fun.

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