Gastric sleeve

[1969gemini 4]

Has no one taken the time to read what she said ?? She only did this because she was told it would help her with the possibility of becoming pregnant. Maybe she wasn’t severely obese. Obviously no one has shared with her that it is normal to have regrets. Maybe she does need a therapist or maybe we as a Bariatric community can be mindful of the tone that comes across in a post.
I pray you come to a healthy place.

[lizonaplane 1,613]

11 hours ago, 1969gemini said:

Has no one taken the time to read what she said ?? She only did this because she was told it would help her with the possibility of becoming pregnant. Maybe she wasn’t severely obese. Obviously no one has shared with her that it is normal to have regrets. Maybe she does need a therapist or maybe we as a Bariatric community can be mindful of the tone that comes across in a post.
I pray you come to a healthy place.

Uhhh... several of us, including me, said that regret is common. Also, even if you have PCOS, they are not going to do a bariatric surgery if you are already at a healthy weight.

[I♡BypassedMyPhatAss♡ 804]

21 hours ago, 1969gemini said:

Has no one taken the time to read what she said ?? She only did this because she was told it would help her with the possibility of becoming pregnant. Maybe she wasn’t severely obese. Obviously no one has shared with her that it is normal to have regrets. Maybe she does need a therapist or maybe we as a Bariatric community can be mindful of the tone that comes across in a post.
I pray you come to a healthy place.

The irony of someone using a condescending tone whilst typing that others should be mindful of the tone used...🤦🏻‍♀️

[blackcatsandbaddecisions 852]

When I had my initial consult the PA held up a picture of a cartoon stomach being separated from a body and said something like “in this surgery we cut most of your stomach out, we remove it from your body and throw it away. It’s permanent, and there’s no going back. Do you understand that?” At the time I felt like it was kind of aggressive but after being on the forums a few years I think that surgeons should maybe spend more time in initial consults doing that sort of discussion. This is a one way trip and people should really be getting that information a long time before preop, not wondering it a few weeks after surgery. That’s a failing on the bariatric office and surgeon.

[1969gemini 4]

@WhispersOfAngel! You don’t no me and I am not being condescending! When I said No one, I was speaking about her medical team. I can read and saw the support given. Irony really? I wish you well in your journey. And yes emails, text messages and post. Can all have negative tones, when you don’t know the person. But lesson learned. Be safe and happy weight loss journey

[I♡BypassedMyPhatAss♡ 804]

4 hours ago, 1969gemini said:

@WhispersOfAngel! You don’t no me and I am not being condescending! When I said No one, I was speaking about her medical team. I can read and saw the support given. Irony really? I wish you well in your journey. And yes emails, text messages and post. Can all have negative tones, when you don’t know the person. But lesson learned. Be safe and happy weight loss journey

Of course I don't know you. But perhaps when you're typing in a forum like this you should be specific about whom you're typing about. We're not mind readers.

Thanks for the well wishes and I wish you the same!

[1969gemini 4]

So I’m not sure why or how. But I did not post a response to this persons thread. I have had to change my password. And reported this to the tech department. So please do not send me responses to that post. I’ve been hacked. Which is a shame. But I do wish you all well!

[I♡BypassedMyPhatAss♡ 804]

8 minutes ago, 1969gemini said:

So I’m not sure why or how. But I did not post a response to this persons thread. I have had to change my password. And reported this to the tech department. So please do not send me responses to that post. I’ve been hacked. Which is a shame. But I do wish you all well!

😂

[1969gemini 4]

😂😤🤣

Edited February 13, 2022 by 1969gemini

[cancan1 3]

On 02/09/2022 at 18:05, 1969gemini said:

Has no one taken the time to read what she said ?? She only did this because she was told it would help her with the possibility of becoming pregnant. Maybe she wasn’t severely obese. Obviously no one has shared with her that it is normal to have regrets. Maybe she does need a therapist or maybe we as a Bariatric community can be mindful of the tone that comes across in a post.

I pray you come to a healthy place.

Ya I had the minimum BMI they take for the surgery… still regretful. I hate PCOS.

[danita75 19]

I think you are going through this because food addiction! Remember we all had this done because face it we all have a food addiction! I hade a ruff first week seamed to level out better after that but it’s a daily challenge! My family all eats normal still I do find myself getting quite annoyed watching people eat , telling my kids to slow down a lot now! Realizing how much food they eat annoys me. I think I’m past all the sadness of not eating so much food ( because it is so good) but I go out to eat I eat till I’m full then either take the rest home or give it away there at the table to a starving teenager ( LOL) you got to really focus and change your relationship with food. I think you will be happy in the long run and one day when you have a baby in your arms it will make it all worth it! Hope your deans all come true! Focus on the why and you will succeed! My why is I want to be healthy and do stuff with my family and not be tired all the time! I’m down 40 lbs. in 2 months and I feel great!!