BirdLady21 59 Posted November 9, 2021 Hello, everyone this is my first time here. So happy I found this group. I am in the home stretch. My surgery is November 23. Any tips???? 3 summerseeker, GreenTealael and Kaguragetshealthy_87 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GreenTealael 25,430 Posted November 10, 2021 Congratulations in advance! Tips: Don’t buy too much in advance and absolutely never compare you’re progress to anyone else. 1 1 1 ladyCarlotta, Arabesque and BirdLady21 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Elidh 240 Posted November 10, 2021 Welcome BirdLady! My big tip: As tempting as it may be, don’t weigh yourself for at least 3 weeks after the surgery. 2 1 ShannonCorbin, BirdLady21 and summerseeker reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cynkentayjus1 4 Posted November 10, 2021 You are not alone! Prayers for you [emoji120]Sent from my SM-A125U using BariatricPal mobile app 1 BirdLady21 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GreenTealael 25,430 Posted November 10, 2021 10 hours ago, GreenTealael said: Congratulations in advance! Tips: Don’t buy too much in advance and absolutely never compare you’re progress to anyone else. -*your 1 NovaLuna reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kaguragetshealthy_87 41 Posted November 10, 2021 14 hours ago, BirdLady21 said: Hello, everyone this is my first time here. So happy I found this group. I am in the home stretch. My surgery is November 23. Any tips???? Give yourself grace and patience also don't do too much to fast. I had surgery on the 29th and I'm struggling I had to go back to work after a week because I haven't been on my job long enough for FMLA *eye roll* and also I didn't have enough vacation time. Whatever time you can take off use it! 1 BirdLady21 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Splenda 257 Posted November 10, 2021 Congrats! My advice: this journey is much more about the mental/emotional than it is the physical. Barring really nasty complications, the physical end of the surgery will be fine, especially once you are recovered. But the mental/emotional aspects will be with you for the rest of your life. 1 BirdLady21 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mz D 25 Posted November 10, 2021 You're making a HUGE change, so it's okay to be nervous about it! Don't be surprised if you struggle, and don't feel bad when you inevitably do. Look at this amazing community you found that you can reach out to when you need an understanding friend! This is going to be an amazing change your body will thank you for later. 1 1 fourmonthspreop and BirdLady21 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mz D 25 Posted November 10, 2021 You're making a HUGE change, so it's okay to be nervous about it! Don't be surprised if you struggle, and don't feel bad when you inevitably do. Look at this amazing community you found that you can reach out to when you need an understanding friend! This is going to be an amazing change your body will thank you for later. 1 BirdLady21 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BirdLady21 59 Posted November 12, 2021 Thank you everyone!!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jamashburn 2 Posted November 18, 2021 You had major surgery recently. Your alway dehydrated and staving your body in a sense. It will take several month to feel good. Honestly, the first 6 were hell. The next 3 weren't as bad, and the last 3 were somewhat closer to normal. Your body is never going to be "normal" again. There are going to be many days where you will question yourself on why you did this and other days when you look in the mirror and you know why it's not the easy way out. But, it is worth it in the end, I promise! Sent from my SM-N975U using BariatricPal mobile app Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Charotera303 20 Posted November 18, 2021 I had my surgery on 11/8 and had regrets before and after the surgery but positive thinking only! Onwards and forwards only. It’s definitely a lifestyle change and I’m coping day by day. I also learned that journaling your intake and following a schedule helps to keep me hydrated. Congratulations in advance but if you have thoughts now, talk to a behavioral therapist. You still have time. Best wishes! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites