kristieshannon 1,668 Posted May 24, 2021 On 05/24/2021 at 10:49, HealthyLifeStyle said: I can not fathom how you could recoop after having so much surgery at once. OMG! You must have been unable to do anything at all. My recovery was surprisingly smooth. The first 2-3 days were rough of course, but after that I felt like each day was a big improvement over the previous. I went back to work full time at three weeks post op and felt great. 1 HealthyLifeStyle reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ShoppGirl 5,024 Posted May 24, 2021 I have only lost 40 pounds and I already have boob issues. They are deflated but I tried a cup size smaller In the same bra and it creates muffin top because the cup is not wide enough. I have a bunch of space at the top of the bra that is empty. Hopefully as I lose more this will change or I am never going to find a bra that fits properly. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
HealthyLifeStyle 351 Posted May 25, 2021 21 hours ago, ShoppGirl said: I have only lost 40 pounds and I already have boob issues. They are deflated but I tried a cup size smaller In the same bra and it creates muffin top because the cup is not wide enough. I have a bunch of space at the top of the bra that is empty. Hopefully as I lose more this will change or I am never going to find a bra that fits properly. Try a "demi" bra. It is like only a 1/2 cup instead of the full cup. It worked for me so maybe it will work for you too. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ShoppGirl 5,024 Posted May 25, 2021 43 minutes ago, HealthyLifeStyle said: Try a "demi" bra. It is like only a 1/2 cup instead of the full cup. It worked for me so maybe it will work for you too. I will try it. Thank you for the suggestion. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Arabesque 7,442 Posted May 26, 2021 9 hours ago, HealthyLifeStyle said: Try a "demi" bra. It is like only a 1/2 cup instead of the full cup. It worked for me so maybe it will work for you too. The demi or half cup didn’t work for me at all. All the loose empty skin at the top of my breast just oozed over the top of the bra. Not attractive. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
HealthyLifeStyle 351 Posted May 26, 2021 16 hours ago, Arabesque said: The demi or half cup didn’t work for me at all. All the loose empty skin at the top of my breast just oozed over the top of the bra. Not attractive. It will work for some and not others. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mamabear_2_2 39 Posted May 26, 2021 On 5/24/2021 at 10:45 AM, HealthyLifeStyle said: I have never had a fitting before so I am shy. I was trained as a bra and mastectomy patient fitter while I was in grad school. Please don't be shy or embarrassed! Fitters truly do see it all! It made my heart so happy each time I was able to help a woman, cancer patient or not, walk away with an undergarment (and/or prosthetic) that not only fit well but helped them feel better, too! Most fitters take a lot of pride in being of service and helping women feel great about themselves and know how important well-fitting undergarments can be! 😊 4 bufbills, Arabesque, lizonaplane and 1 other reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
HealthyLifeStyle 351 Posted May 26, 2021 5 minutes ago, mamabear_2_2 said: I was trained as a bra and mastectomy patient fitter while I was in grad school. Please don't be shy or embarrassed! Fitters truly do see it all! It made my heart so happy each time I was able to help a woman, cancer patient or not, walk away with an undergarment (and/or prosthetic) that not only fit well but helped them feel better, too! Most fitters take a lot of pride in being of service and helping women feel great about themselves and know how important well-fitting undergarments can be! 😊 Thank you so much. This makes me feel a little bit better about doing this now. 1 mamabear_2_2 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Pkump 47 Posted May 27, 2021 I am 62 and almost 4 months into my journey, you better believe I will get my breasts done if I end up with soap-in-a-rope boobs. I have to live with them. 2 4 ShoppGirl, Bari_KS, Arabesque and 3 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
HealthyLifeStyle 351 Posted May 27, 2021 1 minute ago, Pkump said: I am 62 and almost 4 months into my journey, you better believe I will get my breasts done if I end up with soap-in-a-rope boobs. I have to live with them. OMG!! I died laughing at soap-in-a-rope boobs!! LOL 1 1 Anj0399 and STLoser reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
STLoser 1,099 Posted May 27, 2021 I'm 49, soon to be 50. When I was 31 I had a breast reduction because I was HUGE. I was a DD after the reduction, but then when I had my son at 39, they grew back, and now I wear a 40H. I was a 48H prior to wls. I never have lost much weight in my breasts now or in the past. Because of the reduction, which included a lift, my nipples are where they should be, but since I've lost weight, my boobs do feel and look flabbier. Also, most of the tissue is at the side if that makes any sense and I have a lot under my arms. Breast surgery will be my last priority, because my stomach and legs bother me more, but I would consider it if they look too bad. A good bra helps! Sent from my Nokia 7.2 using BariatricPal mobile app 1 Arabesque reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
STLoser 1,099 Posted May 27, 2021 Oh, also, I spent most of my life wearing the wrong bra size.. Until I went to a local specialty shop and got a fitting. It was life changing. You really should consider it. I would suggest not going to places like Victoria's Secret though. They don't know how to properly fit you..Sent from my Nokia 7.2 using BariatricPal mobile app 1 Arabesque reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
HealthyLifeStyle 351 Posted May 27, 2021 A few people have suggested to get a bra fitting. What is a good place to get one? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kristieshannon 1,668 Posted May 27, 2021 I’ve always had a good experience getting fitted at Nordstrom. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lizonaplane 1,613 Posted May 27, 2021 1 hour ago, kristieshannon said: I’ve always had a good experience getting fitted at Nordstrom. I have had good experience with bra fittings at Nordstrom, but I've had even better experience with bra fittings at local lingerie stores that specialize in mastectomy products as well. Unfortunately the one near me closed a few years ago. I agree with everyone who said to get a bra fitting. I haven't had surgery yet, but a number of years ago I lost 100 lbs and while I lost band size my breasts didn't get much smaller. I find underwires so uncomfortable that I just wear sports bras all the time now even though they look like crap... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites