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hey all im getting a divorce. it sucks. but i understand that it happens. it like i says sucks. i just really miss my best friend. and he had weight loss surgery too. i just f**k i miss my best friend.

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So try and work it out - I am divorced and now we are back togethor. Took a ton of hard work and gives on both ends but we are good now.

but if not you can always be friends

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I'm now remarried to the husband who divorced me. It was some years in between, but we ended up together again in the end. Divorce sucks, but you can get through this.

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I'm so very sorry that you are going through this!! Sending HUGS!!!

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7 hours ago, newmebithebypass said:

hey all im getting a divorce. it sucks. but i understand that it happens. it like i says sucks. i just really miss my best friend. and he had weight loss surgery too. i just f**k i miss my best friend.

I'm so sorry. Be kind to yourself and give yourself time to grieve and recover.

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15 hours ago, newmebithebypass said:

hey all im getting a divorce. it sucks. but i understand that it happens. it like i says sucks. i just really miss my best friend. and he had weight loss surgery too. i just f**k i miss my best friend.

It's hard, I know. I divorced my X after 26 years. For me, it was the best decision. He was a very controlling person. I got remarried a little over a year ago to the most amazing man ever.... finding happiness again can happen.

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Sucks

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21 hours ago, newmebithebypass said:

hey all im getting a divorce. it sucks. but i understand that it happens. it like i says sucks. i just really miss my best friend. and he had weight loss surgery too. i just f**k i miss my best friend.

I’m so sorry to hear that. Divorce for any reason is painful. I hope you have good support and surround yourself with people who love you. Sending you healing thoughts. 🥰

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I thought of you when I saw this.

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