Home from 12/3 surgery

[HeatherA 1]

I had open gallbladder surgery, not laproscopic. The scar is pretty big and apparently the scar tissue was so thick it created a wall or barrier near my stomach. Was your surgery open in 1996?

Hi Carol,

Thank you for the quick reply... I know you must not be feeling the best at the moment... I had the laproscopic surgery not open so hopefully it won't be an issue.

I wish you all of the best.

[Carolk1 0]

good luck - I'm sure you'll do great!

[Jonesy 0]

Carolk1-

So sorry this happened. I feel really badly for what you're going through. I'm a nurse and I can't imagine saying something so rude to a patient. When you feel better you can let their supervisiors know. That is really unprofessional.

Anyway, take care- hopefully in a day or so you'll be feeling better and can think about what to do.

[Carolk1 0]

Jonesy - thanks, I appreciate the support.. I was very surprised at the comments, but I think it confirms that people, even your nurses still think WLS as the wasy way out....

[Lori Ann 0]

Do you think you might get the sleeve? I was just wondering.....I know you mentioned it in your post. I wonder if you would have to be approved a second time (go through all of the hoops)....or if it would be a shorter process since you have already done everything and been approved. Just curious if you are considering the sleeve. I know you are disappointed, but I definitely believe when a door shuts it is only because there is something better out there for you! I am sorry to hear what happened, but only something better is going to happen for you......I know it! Good Luck dear!

[HeatherA 1]

good luck - I'm sure you'll do great!

Thanks Carol!

[Carolk1 0]

Lori - I just read about the sleeve and I have no interest in it. I liked the lap band because it was reversible and the sleeve is not. Plus a portion of your stomach is removed with the sleeve. I really don't think that's for me.....thanks for the well wishes.

[mrskrzyz 1]

Boy that sucks!!!!! Had a very similar experience 10 years back when I went for a breast reduction. I was so excited to get those gigantic things cut off and after they got me on the operating table they discovered I was a "bleeder" and stopped surgery.

I was soooooooooooooo angry. But in time they did do it again and everything was great!!! I will keep my finger crossed for you!!! Don't give up!!!

[Candle 11]

Oh Carol! I am so sorry to hear things didn't work out.

I hope you continue to post here.

Please keep your options open and most importantly, do what is best for YOU!!

[Carolk1 0]

Thanks Candle! Congrats on your amazing progress...keep it going.....

[Chienne 0]

WOW - I so feel for you. You are very lucky that you had a great surgeon and he recognized the limitations. I had gall bladder surgery- but it was laparoscopic. You must be going through a tidal wave of emotions. Stay with us for support- you are a merry loser!

[Twilight 2]

Carol,

Just wondering how you are doing today. Hopefully a good night's sleep helped the emotions. I know when i have something hit me nothing seems to help like a deep sleep.< /p>

We're still thinking of you. I hope it is helping.

Twi

[dandydeb 0]

Hi Carol and all,

I had my gallbladder out in 80. My dr. was surprised by the size of my scar. I had no idea this could stop the ability to place the band. I can't imagine how I would deal with that. Carol I hope you are doing better.

[Carolk1 0]

Thanks everyone..I'm feeling physically better today, but mentally/emotionally everything is sinking in...Not to mention, I got on the scale this morning (which was stupid) and I was up 5pounds... I really hope this has to do with the surgery (for whatever reason) and that it will disappear as it quickly as it showed up. I drinking Protein Shakes and Soup today, since I had purchased 6 containers of Unjury ahead of time....I'm thinking I may still try to follow the band diet...We'll see how well this works...I just want the soreness and the shoulder pain to go away and my incisions to heal....

[Motocrossgirly 0]

Carol,

I am so sorry you had to deal with this!!! I went in for surgery on 11/26/07 to have it canceled because I had gotten a respiratory infection and my lungs sounded junky.. Not the same as your situation, since they rescheduled mine for 12/13/07; but, I did have some of the same emotions you did.... Nurses not understanding why I was upset, jealous seeing other patients being wheeled away.. Angry, that I had done the diet & other pre-op prep to come away with a big fat NADA...Embarassment explaining to family & friends, that no they sent me home.. etc..

I am so very sorry!! I am so very proud of you for your attitude.. Try to keep your eye on the prize & let us know if we can help u.