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BayougirlMrsS

By BayougirlMrsS, in Rants & Raves

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BayougirlMrsS    3,935

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1 minute ago, GreenTealael said:

surgery shaming

Gaslighting

Profiling microaggressions

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ding ding.... and we have a winner. I was wondering when you'd pull that one out. Only took a few posts. I knew you had it in ya and you didn't disappoint.

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GreenTealael    25,446

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4 minutes ago, BayougirlMrsS said:

ding ding.... and we have a winner. I was wondering when you'd pull that one out. Only took a few posts. I knew you had it in ya and you didn't disappoint.

Gaslighting

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BayougirlMrsS    3,935

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4 minutes ago, GreenTealael said:

Gaslighting

So it's ok for you to post all the negative Memes..... I get it now, what's good for the goose is NOT good for the gander... Ok. glad you could clear that up for me. I was fixing to have to go look up "gaslighting".... you know i am old and not up on these sayings.....

I can't wait for the next one.... which will it be... the "eye rolling" one... i like that one....

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GreenTealael    25,446

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1 minute ago, BayougirlMrsS said:

So it's ok for you to post all the negative Memes..... I get it now, what's good for the goose is NOT good for the gander... Ok. glad you could clear that up for me. I was fixing to have to go look up "gaslighting".... you know i am old and not up on these sayings.....

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holy moly.... here i thought we were just bantering with each other. Didn't know i was causing you to doubt your psychology. thought it was just a little disagreement.

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GreenTealael    25,446

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7 minutes ago, BayougirlMrsS said:

holy moly.... here i thought we were just bantering with each other. Didn't know i was causing you to doubt your psychology. thought it was just a little disagreement.

Gaslighting again and also

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3 minutes ago, GreenTealael said:

Gaslighting again and also

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No.... not at all. I didn't body or SX sham anyone.... I asked a question... You took it as such. Why would i do that? I had two WLS and a TT.... i'm very proud of that.

I do love the fact that you have all these memes waiting to be used. I have a hard time finding just one.

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18 hours ago, BayougirlMrsS said:

But i'm also not the one who thought nothing about getting on a plane and flying to Fl to get more plastic surgery in the middle of an epidemic... so don't come at me with a "superiority" you choose yourself when you did that You made yourself "superior"..... So yes... now i'm calling you down for thinking you and your plastic surgery was more important.

4 minutes ago, BayougirlMrsS said:

No.... not at all. I didn't body or SX sham anyone.... I asked a question... You took it as such. Why would i do that? I had two WLS and a TT.... i'm very proud of that.

I do love the fact that you have all these memes waiting to be used. I have a hard time finding just one.

Gaslighting again ❤

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1 minute ago, GreenTealael said:

Gaslighting again ❤

is it considered "gaslighting" when it's the truth...?? Did you are did you not go to FL in the middle of the epidemic? So covid wasn't that heavy on you.

I can't wait to see the next meme.... How do i post that one with MJ eating popcorn? ... I love that one

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5 minutes ago, BayougirlMrsS said:

is it considered "gaslighting" when it's the truth...?? Did you are did you not go to FL in the middle of the epidemic? So covid wasn't that heavy on you.

I can't wait to see the next meme.... How do i post that one with MJ eating popcorn? ... I love that one

Shaming Tactics

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i'm not shaming you.... i had a TT as well. I think it's great. It was one of the best things i did.

I was just pointing something out after you "shamed" me and others for having a difference of opinion. You are the one that brought it up.

do you are do you not post memes on others post.... rolling eyes when you don't agree? I wish i could figure that out.... i love a good meme

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8 minutes ago, BayougirlMrsS said:

i'm not shaming you.... i had a TT as well. I think it's great. It was one of the best things i did.

I was just pointing something out after you "shamed" me and others for having a difference of opinion. You are the one that brought it up.

do you are do you not post memes on others post.... rolling eyes when you don't agree? I wish i could figure that out.... i love a good meme

47 minutes ago, BayougirlMrsS said:

holy moly.... here i thought we were just bantering with each other. Didn't know i was causing you to doubt your psychology. thought it was just a little disagreement.

Change in narrative, obscuring of facts, gaslighting ❤

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seriously.... you had to go back to 2012....

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