ChubRub 1,709 Posted July 25, 2020 1 hour ago, New&Improved said: II'm amazed you only got to 170 for your height & by the BMI chart you should be able to get to like 140? But I guess everyone has different metabolism... Seriously? Stop shaming others for their weight/BMI choices. Better yet, just go away... 3 7 Bari_KS, alissajs, GreenTealael and 7 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
New&Improved 1,780 Posted July 25, 2020 I was offering my support don't rush everything the wrong way 1 3 Lily66, JessLess, kellym1220 and 1 other reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OshunKilgore 18 Posted July 25, 2020 I had surgery 4 weeks ago. I am 38 years old. 5'11 now 6 months ago I was 6'1 but 2 back surgerys shrunk me. I weighed 327 lbs on the day of surgery. As of yesterday I weigh 300lbs. My weight loss was slow because for two weeks I couldn't get Water down and anything I ate I was throwing up. It takes time for the body to figure out what is going on. Today I tried to eat scrambled egg and got a Migraine and was sick again. Don't know if it was the egg or the oil.Sent from my LM-V350 using BariatricPal mobile app 2 catwoman7 and Lanie992 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hop_Scotch 1,633 Posted July 25, 2020 Just now, OshunKilgore said: I had surgery 4 weeks ago. I am 38 years old. 5'11 now 6 months ago I was 6'1 but 2 back surgerys shrunk me. I weighed 327 lbs on the day of surgery. As of yesterday I weigh 300lbs. My weight loss was slow because for two weeks I couldn't get Water down and anything I ate I was throwing up. It takes time for the body to figure out what is going on. Today I tried to eat scrambled egg and got a Migraine and was sick again. Don't know if it was the egg or the oil. Sent from my LM-V350 using BariatricPal mobile app 27lb in four weeks is not slow at all. It took me a while to tolerate scrambled egg, Now I eat one or two eggs most days, though I only use a sliver of butter to grease the pan. 1 Lanie992 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BriarRose 437 Posted July 25, 2020 Dear New and Improved, When you have been a 5’ 2 “ female - who is 64 years old - I and other will take your opinion more seriously. Have you ever had a hysterectomy ? Had to make the choices between adding Synthetic hormones that might help balance Weight gain and loss against a high risk of breast cancer ? Have you given birth to a child ? Or two ? Or had degenerative disease ? Or just been over 50 ? I hope that you remain healthy and never have to deal with medical issues. But growing older is not for the faint of heart. Another good thing about being long lived is the ability to know when to be insulted and when to just be amused. I remain the later 15 1 1 Bari_KS, tinyninja, pssk and 14 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BriarRose 437 Posted July 25, 2020 3 hours ago, ChubRub said: Seriously? Stop shaming others for their weight/BMI choices. Better yet, just go away... Thank you for your support. I appreciate that a lot ! I like to think that there is karma in this world. Yours should be increased by your kindness. 6 Lily66, GreenTealael, ms.sss and 3 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
New&Improved 1,780 Posted July 25, 2020 Didn't mean to offend Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
catwoman7 11,221 Posted July 25, 2020 1 hour ago, New&Improved said: Didn't mean to offend unfortunately, you tend to offend people a lot... 2 3 JessLess, RainbowBrite57, ms.sss and 2 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
New&Improved 1,780 Posted July 25, 2020 Sorry I think it's just my personality I have not had alot of social interactions before... I suffer from anxiety too.. 1 JenniferNu reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
catwoman7 11,221 Posted July 25, 2020 3 hours ago, OshunKilgore said: I had surgery 4 weeks ago. I am 38 years old. 5'11 now 6 months ago I was 6'1 but 2 back surgerys shrunk me. I weighed 327 lbs on the day of surgery. As of yesterday I weigh 300lbs. My weight loss was slow because for two weeks I couldn't get Water down and anything I ate I was throwing up. It takes time for the body to figure out what is going on. Today I tried to eat scrambled egg and got a Migraine and was sick again. Don't know if it was the egg or the oil. Sent from my LM-V350 using BariatricPal mobile app 27 lbs is A LOT! I've been hanging out on various bariatric forums for the last 6-7 years. It seems like most people lose somewhere in the 15-25 lb range the first month - so you're actually above average. I think sometimes people expect to lose 30+ lbs the first month - but that's actually not all that common. I think that expectation comes from shows like "My 600 lb Life", but you have to remember where those people are starting. WAY more than most of us - and of course, starting BMI is one of the factors that determines your rate of weight loss. So you are just fine!! also - eggs. An egg intolerance isn't uncommon the first few weeks or months - but for most people, it's temporary. So I'm betting it was that... 1 Lanie992 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
catwoman7 11,221 Posted July 25, 2020 (edited) 48 minutes ago, New&Improved said: Sorry I think it's just my personality I have not had alot of social interactions before... I suffer from anxiety too.. in that case, I would lay off the "tough love" responses. It takes a lot of finesse to be able to give that without offending people. I have a master's degree in counseling psych, and am 60 years old to boot (i.e., have been around the block a few times), and I STILL struggle with how to respond to some people at times without offending them. It's an art. In addition, a "tough love" response was completely inappropriate in this particular situation Edited July 25, 2020 by catwoman7 11 Lanie992, DaisyChainOz, Bari_KS and 8 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GreenTealael 25,439 Posted July 25, 2020 2 hours ago, New&Improved said: Sorry I think it's just my personality I have not had alot of social interactions before... I suffer from anxiety too.. EXCUSES EXCUSES... 7 1 AlwaysCruising, RainbowBrite57, Lily66 and 5 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
abiebaby 24 Posted July 26, 2020 I may be an outlier...Started process at 308 (bmi of 41). Sleeved on 6/22 at 286. Last I weighed myself on Friday (4.5 weeks post op), I was down to 244 (after a stall for 1.5 weeks at ~250). Not saying this to boast; I don't think I'm doing anything different than anyone else. My main point is that everyone loses weight differently. I fully expect my weight loss to slow down significantly, while others' weight loss will be accelerating.39 year old male, BTW. Sent from my SM-G986U using BariatricPal mobile app 2 Lanie992 and New&Improved reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Takoda 23 Posted July 26, 2020 So I’m getting concerned maybe I’m losing too much too fast? I was 261 on surgery and I’m 225 now. 😨 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Takoda 23 Posted July 26, 2020 Hmmm. I hope I’m not losing too fast too soon. My weight on the day of surgery was 261.2 and now it’s 225.2 8 weeks out. Should I be concerned? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites