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Its been a LONG process but I have my date. I will be joining the looser bench on June 30th. I have had mixed emotions after getting my date. I keep asking myself I am making a good decision. Did anyone else feel this way?

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I ask myself this most everyday but the answer I always come to is yes this is a good choice and a tool to get me where I need to be. Congrats on getting your date!! I hope to have my date soon!!!!!

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I am day 8 and I had those omg what did I do moments but then I realized I HAD to do this. There are things in life we don’t necessarily want, but need all the same. I had/have PCOS and my doctor told me there was pretty much no chance to lose the weight without surgery. I am down 15.5 lbs and already look at food differently.

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I counted down everyday waiting I couldn't get the surgery done soon enough I only wish I had done it years earlier.

It's the best choice don't stress about it.

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16 hours ago, Thenewguy said:

Did anyone else feel this way?

No you are alone! Really there is not one person on this forum who was not nervouse and questioning there decision! No you are normal. For me and most of members it was the best decision we ever made

Welcome to the losers club glad you joined - Enjoy the journey and just look at some of us who have crushed it! You are next

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Congratulations! Best, Best, Best decision I’ve made! And Yes, I questioned myself many times over it, but had tried, tried, tried and finally, IT WAS TIME!

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I think almost every one of us went through that "What the hell am I about to do to myself" phase, followed by the "What the hell did I DO to myself" phase. You are about to have major life changing surgery so you would have to be a rock not to have some emotions about it. Excitement and fear aren't very far apart on the spectrum, so you'll feel both at the same time!

Good luck--YOU GOT THIS!!!

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