Rose57 7 Posted March 2, 2020 Hello - I'm having DS surgery mid to late April. I live alone in an in-law apartment in my son and daughter-in-law's home. Did anyone need any help from anyone in the initial healing process? They just had a baby so I don't want to be a burden to them too much. So if you did need help - how often and with what? Thanks in advance for your help. This is a great forum! 1 NovaLuna reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AJ Tylo 1,399 Posted March 2, 2020 No you will be fine May need help if you have to lift something but should be ok 1 Uomograsso reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JRT Mom 919 Posted March 3, 2020 Other than the first time I got up to go to the bathroom in the hospital, I never needed ANY help. You should be fine--good luck! 1 Krimsonbutterflies reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DB in AZ 46 Posted March 3, 2020 You maybe restricted from driving initially. I was cleared after 1 week. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Postop 411 Posted March 3, 2020 (edited) @Rose57I had the traditional DS almost 15 years ago and the answer is yes regarding help. I had my mother stay for about a week. I was too tired and weak to do much. She made my meals (which was a tsp. of scrambled egg for Breakfast 😁), kept track of what pills I started on and crushed some into a tsp. of yogurt as I recall. She also pushed me to get up and walk outside several times a day. I needed her to clean myself as well. Edited March 3, 2020 by Postop Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
plain.sight 20 Posted March 9, 2020 I just had surgery in December and I did not need much help really once I was released from the hospital. I had help available, and having someone there was nice, but most of what I needed was emotional support as I healed. I think you'll be okay, and it will be nice knowing they're there and CAN help more than actually needing their help. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NovaLuna 710 Posted March 10, 2020 I had my surgery at the end of January and I did need a little help, but not much. I was a little unsteady for the first week or so because I felt really weak and my Mom took time off work and helped me and followed behind me when I walked so that I didn't fall, but other than that I was pretty much okay. My Mom technically didn't actually have to take time off work, but two and a half years ago I had brain surgery and then ended up with meningitis following the surgery and could have died so... she's really over protective even though I'm 32 and an adult she always responds 'No matter how old you, your sister, and brother are, you're still my babies' so yeah... I think you'll be fine though! 1 DOT888 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Puddin pie 11 Posted March 10, 2020 What a beautiful mum..always a mum 1 1 NovaLuna and DOT888 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites