Sex?

[Emma809 89]

woman....... If you are past your post op for 2 months do you still crave sex.... or your still having issues like not interested ....

Just curious if anyone is going thru this or am i jus goin nuts

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[Mary_Berry_213 7]

1 month post-op and no interest what so ever.

[Emma809 89]

1 month post-op and no interest what so ever.

oh my goodness me too...idk if im traumatized all the things i been thru or maybe its da major hormones change ...but i have noooo urge to do nothing...
im a bit scared cuz my husband keeps pushing rhe subject i keep saying no...or makin up excuses🤦🏻‍♀️

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[Krimsonbutterflies 661]

I guess this is a good time to embrace being single, lol. There's no one else to take into consideration, in regards to how the surgery may impact them and their needs. This is already a very private matter and enough for me to navigate without another's expectations and needs.

I wish those who are married and part of a couple understanding, communication, support and patience from your significant other.

[elcee 3,342]

I’m as interested ( or not) as I was preop🤣

[Krimsonbutterflies 661]

Just now, elcee said:

I’m as interested ( or not) as I was preop🤣

Lol, how long as was your wls?

[elcee 3,342]

Band 2009, band to bypass revision Jan 2019

[Emma809 89]

Lol, how long as was your wls?

2 months

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[Losingit2018 1,170]

Maybe you could explain to your husband that you are too nervous after all you have been through. Ask him to be patient with you. He should understand that I would think.

[Emma809 89]

Maybe you could explain to your husband that you are too nervous after all you have been through. Ask him to be patient with you. He should understand that I would think.

ty i will try that

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[Mary_Berry_213 7]

21 hours ago, Emma809 said:

oh my goodness me too...idk if im traumatized all the things i been thru or maybe its da major hormones change ...but i have noooo urge to do nothing...
im a bit scared cuz my husband keeps pushing rhe subject i keep saying no...or makin up excuses🤦🏻‍♀️

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I'm sorry, I hope all goes back to normal soon. My husband had surgery same time last year. I think that's why he's being so understanding this time. lol, my goodness, I was prepared this time around for all these changes.