hot chocolate 2354 8 Posted December 13, 2019 Since going through with this surgery my marriage has not been what I thought which is happy alot of arguments and mixed emotions Sent from my SM-N976V using BariatricPal mobile app Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nenes78 528 Posted December 13, 2019 Communication is key. We all hit bumps in the road. There could also be underlying issues before surgery that come to light after. There are many articles on the subject of relationships with oneself and others after bariatric surgery. I'll post a couple links. Hang in there. https://www.obesityaction.org/community/article-library/relationship-challenges-before-and-after-weight-loss-surgery/ https://www.everydayhealth.com/diet-nutrition/bmi/getting-bariatric-surgery-unexpected-way-your-relationship-status-may-change/ 1 Bastian reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AJ Tylo 1,399 Posted December 13, 2019 Welcome to the issues of WLS - Tons of posts here on this same subject - I agree as above - Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
summerset 5,265 Posted December 13, 2019 People don't like major changes forced on them (at least not if it means inconvenience for them and/or threatens them) - seriously, I sometimes think husbands and wives expect too much from their spouses. 1 Bastian reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites