Healthy_life2 8,324 Posted December 6, 2019 Wow, I just got manslained. *laughing* First time I’ve worn one of my half marathon shirts to the gym. (race to robbie creek elevation half marathon) I’m feeling like a bad ass and thought no one could kill my vibe today. A racquetball player in his late 50’s and a substantial beer belly. walked up to me in the weight room. He had no idea that i was obese five years ago. He said, I can help you lose your mid-section” He tapped my midsection with his hand. I backed up, “oh hell no!” you didn’t just touch me. I told him “I’m working with patty” (she’s a trainer) He gave me a back handed compliment “you are all muscle and making the guys look bad.” What a dumb ass, some people give me motivation to work hard at the gym. 3 GreenTealael, nenes78 and Lynda486 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lvidacovich 372 Posted December 6, 2019 You look great! Ignore the haters 1 GreenTealael reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GreenTealael 25,436 Posted December 6, 2019 He. Touched. You? So. So. Sorry 😔 1 Healthy_life2 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Healthy_life2 8,324 Posted December 6, 2019 5 minutes ago, GreenTealael said: He. Touched. You? So. So. Sorry 😔 Crazy, right? Never touch a woman with PTSD (15 years working in a mens prison) I was ready to toss him to the ground. 1 2 JRT Mom, Krimsonbutterflies and GreenTealael reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VIKING 0424 1,107 Posted December 6, 2019 people just dont understand personal space !!!! you look awesome i hope you told him to piss off or something good 4 1 Healthy_life2, Sosewsue61, GreenTealael and 2 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GreenTealael 25,436 Posted December 6, 2019 12 minutes ago, Healthy_life2 said: Crazy, right? Never touch a woman with PTSD (15 years working in a mens prison) I was ready to toss him to the ground. Never touch anyone who hasnt given you permission unless its an emergency I thought that was the rules.... 2 Healthy_life2 and nenes78 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AJ Tylo 1,399 Posted December 6, 2019 I agree as a guy you should have lit his ass up! Now that would have been funny - The gym seems to be a place guys think they can get laid? never worked out for me but they troll the area looking. This world has lost its mind 1 1 GreenTealael and Healthy_life2 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JRT Mom 919 Posted December 6, 2019 (edited) I read your post and was shocked, but then I saw your legs--DANG! It's obvious you've been working your a$$ off--literally! Great job! Oops-I read your thread title and thought maybe I shouldn't have commented on your legs, but I can't not-they are amazing. So Seriously, who are these people that freely make comments about your body one of them is me! Edited December 6, 2019 by JRT Mom 3 GreenTealael, CapyCapybara and Healthy_life2 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BayougirlMrsS 3,935 Posted December 6, 2019 See.... the b***h in me would have touched his beer-belly and asked..... Should you be working in your conditions? Or i would have asked when was his baby due.... hehehehe.... i really would have 1 1 3 2Bsmaller18, Healthy_life2, CapyCapybara and 2 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JessLess 1,163 Posted December 6, 2019 I would have gotten him thrown out of the gym. Sorry that happened to you. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Healthy_life2 8,324 Posted December 6, 2019 4 hours ago, AJ Tylo said: I agree as a guy you should have lit his ass up! Now that would have been funny - The gym seems to be a place guys think they can get laid? never worked out for me but they troll the area looking. This world has lost its mind I’m lucky that my gym is family friendly. Not many gym creepers. I don’t think this guy was hitting on me. He was straight up ready to tell me how to diet and workout. Some time I'm clueless when it comes to men. Love to hear a guys perspective on things. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Healthy_life2 8,324 Posted December 6, 2019 4 hours ago, JRT Mom said: I read your post and was shocked, but then I saw your legs--DANG! It's obvious you've been working your a$$ off--literally! Great job! Oops-I read your thread title and thought maybe I shouldn't have commented on your legs, but I can't not-they are amazing. So Seriously, who are these people that freely make comments about your body one of them is me! Wow! you are one.😉 Most of us get these random comments from people. I just haven’t had one in a LONG time. It happened much more when I was in weight loss phase. after 80 pounds down, I walked by a secretary sitting at her desk. She reached out and gabbed my thigh and said “you are so little” We don’t even BBQ together and she was latched on to my leg *laughing* Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Healthy_life2 8,324 Posted December 7, 2019 4 minutes ago, JessLess said: I would have gotten him thrown out of the gym. Sorry that happened to you. I've experience worse things in life. He just caught me off guard. I left the gym thinking, did that just happen? Weird moment. 1 JessLess reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Healthy_life2 8,324 Posted December 7, 2019 3 hours ago, BayougirlMrsS said: See.... the b***h in me would have touched his beer-belly and asked..... Should you be working in your conditions? Or i would have asked when was his baby due.... hehehehe.... i really would have You are hilarious and twisted. Love it. 1 BayougirlMrsS reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted December 7, 2019 From 2 hours ago, Healthy_life2 said: I’m lucky that my gym is family friendly. Not many gym creepers. I don’t think this guy was hitting on me. He was straight up ready to tell me how to diet and workout. Some time I'm clueless when it comes to men. Love to hear a guys perspective on things. From a man's point of view," that was wrong!" That was clearly a pick up line. Never ever touch a total stranger. He was clearly intimidated by you and had to be an Alpha Male by telling (or showing you ) how to diet and work out. Just my two cents. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites