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Way up just got back From Cuba and took on a 20 year old for five days! No way before this surgery would i have had the confidence to do that
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I realize this is the mens room. Just needed to say congrats on your weight loss@AJ Tylo. You look happy as does she. Nothing illegal or disgusting about you being happy. You do you and be proud.

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On 1/2/2020 at 5:11 AM, Tinesia said:

Well that's disgusting...she could be your daughter.

Judgmental much?

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On 1/2/2020 at 6:44 AM, AJ Tylo said:

Way up just got back From Cuba and took on a 20 year old for five days! No way before this surgery would i have had the confidence to do that

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F the haters, plow on brother.

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On 1/2/2020 at 7:53 AM, AJ Tylo said:

Different world in Cuba and we are in a mens area - She is much more older then a US 20 year old mentally and Trust me was not my idea. Not that i need to answer to you but that is how that country is!

@AJ Tylo You don't owe anyone an explanation... I think if a woman of 20 wants to be with you... Go for it. I know after i got divorced and started dating, i had many younger men asking to date me... even some of my youngest son's friends (No i didn't)..... but men even younger....

After my first SX in 2009 and lost a ton... my sex drive went way up.... too bad my husband didn't want to be with me and i had to take care of myself.... Enjoy your new sex life.....

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On 2/16/2020 at 10:58 PM, MourningTheLossOfBeer said:

F the haters, plow on brother.

I Agree 100% I see absolutely NOTHING wrong with an older man enjoying himself with a much younger woman, age is just a number.

That being said, I am happily married and would never do anything to jeopardize my marriage. However, the weight issue over the last several years has definitely put the breaks on any active sex life. My wife has been generally supportive of my weight loss plans and I hope that I can loose enough weight to re-ignite the physical passion we shared early in our marriage.

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I'm a female and I'm all for it. As long as its two consenting adults, get it! There's no shame and enjoy your life. Yay weight loss!

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