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Because my BS meter is going off, I am going to repost this from another thread here for you too...

First, If your story is real, and you are not a troll,

please get help. You are dealing with some deep seated mental health issues that need professional help.

Second, if you are a troll,

please get help. You are dealing with some deep seated mental health issues that need professional help.

Either way I wish you healing and peace. :784_peace:

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1 hour ago, catwoman7 said:

this sounds an awful lot like the chocolate croissant person...

I'm not sure how these people managed this. I was by far not perfect, but I could hardly get a but of yogurt down starting my 3rd week.

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30 minutes ago, FluffySaysForkIt! said:

Because my BS meter is going off, I am going to repost this from another thread here for you too...

First, If your story is real, and you are not a troll,

please get help. You are dealing with some deep seated mental health issues that need professional help.

Second, if you are a troll,

please get help. You are dealing with some deep seated mental health issues that need professional help.

Either way I wish you healing and peace. :784_peace:

I'm not sure what is this why you are so furious and accusing me of this why I'll need mental support if I love my friend a little more It's something weird fr me and please you can pass my post with replying but I'm sorry if I hurt you with my post I though that this website can be helpful for me but It seems that it's not so I'm leaving this weirdo and I'm coming back again I think I'll go to get life or something instead of hurting people on Internet that 's why I hate forums but I thought this one is different and sorry again

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1 hour ago, Mariella Josphef said:

I really know that what I did is so wrong and I will never think of doing it again thanks God it passed with any further harm

I think it's just very dangerous at your stage and people are worried you could do something really bad to your stomach.

Stick to the diet, in time you will be able to have regular food.

I understand not wanting to say anything. But, a better choice is to tell her or call and say you can't make it.

Good luck!

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9 minutes ago, Mariella Josphef said:

I'm not sure what is this why you are so furious and accusing me of this why I'll need mental support if I love my friend a little more It's something weird fr me and please you can pass my post with replying but I'm sorry if I hurt you with my post I though that this website can be helpful for me but It seems that it's not so I'm leaving this weirdo and I'm coming back again I think I'll go to get life or something instead of hurting people on Internet that 's why I hate forums but I thought this one is different and sorry again

No need to leave here. I understand you made a mistake. Please be careful and take care of yourself!

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You could easily end up back in the hospital doing that. I understand not wanting to tell your friend but think up some decent excuses like that you ate already!

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14 minutes ago, Mariella Josphef said:

I'm leaving this weirdo and I'm coming back again I think I'll go to get life or something instead of hurting people

Nobody hurt HERE. 😉 Get that help, really.

Mmmkay, I am out, Peace!

:784_peace::784_peace::784_peace::784_peace::784_peace::784_peace:

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Well, that is part of it all, you learn from your mistakes not to repeat them. We have all had those moments ourselves, we are only human. You resolve not to repeat these things and you move on, don't look behind, keep moving ahead. Follow your diet, get your exercise, acknowledge this is not the easiest thing you have ever done, but we who went before you realized that the rewards outweigh the things you have removed from your life. Stay strong and I believe you will have excellent results.

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I’m surprised maintaining the lie to your best friend took a priority over the protecting your sleeve and preventing what could be a very serious complication. Return to your diet, watch out for future complications and consider opening up and being honest with your bestie. I get that you don’t want to make her uncomfortable with her own weight but how do you think she’s going to feel when you mysteriously lose all yours? 

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In my diet I could eat normal food from day 1 (just soft food for start etc) so... don’t panic just don’t do it again. Take good care of portions and really chew a lot your food. It is true you are still healing and everyone is unique. I understand you love your fiend and you don’t want her to feel bad, but on same time she should accept your decision if she loves you back as much :)

All in all, follow your doctor instructions from now on. Better to be safe than sorry

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