Weirdest things you are looking forward to after surgery

[Krestel 330]

I'm wondering if all of you have some weird things that you are looking forward to after surgery?

I have a few:

• Being able to eat cheese again (without feelnbg guilty) and feeling full from it
• Being able to look forward to only tasting a (tiny) bit of everything instead of eating lots of the first thing I like.
• Drinking milk again

Well, they may not be all that weird, but they do seem odd in a positive way. What about you guys?

[Frustr8 7,886]

Eating the right thing in the right amounts, planning to plant and grow some items, today is our last normal frost day, so should be " gravy" from now on.
Otherwise looking like a Foxy Lady instead of someone's Big Momma, I will relinquish my title to Martin Lawrence and Tyler Perry, they both can have all the things that go with such a role.
Otherwise, less short of breath, able to move smoother,quicker and without those groans I used tease,my older relatives about, I now make those sounds myself!!!
And best of all, living a good long while in this crazy Earth. 🌎, have a deep urge to see 👀what happens next.

[KCgirl061 1,532]

Here is the list I made preop, my weight loss bucket list as it is:

1. cross my legs - check! I love crossing my legs now and do it all the time!

2. sneeze without peeing - condition has improved greatly

3. rock climbing - haven't tried yet, kinda forgot it was on my list

4. run a 5k - currently training and looking for a race

5. be comfortable wearing shorts and not just capris in summer - check! I never used to wear shorts, but now I have 3 in my new size and only one pair of capris

6. buy a swimsuit that doesn't have a skirt - check!

7. waterski again - gotta get to the lake this summer to knock this one off

7. Sex. More energy for it, more fun positions to try - DOUBLE CHECK!

Some bonus things: I like being able to pop myself up to sit on counters, I can sit on the floor without hurting my hips, I can buy a much bigger variety of shoes because I no longer need wide widths. Unfortunately I'll need to replace all my wide calf boots because they look ridiculous on me now.

[GradyCat 3,695]

I'm glad I no longer have to wear chain extenders on my necklaces.

[Krestel 330]

Oh, I just thought of a new one.

Being able to wear high heels without killing my feet because I'm too heavy and think I look horrible.

[justmetj 421]

Clipping my toenails and breathing at the same time 🤣 Which I can actually do now!

[Ti11y 15]

Wearing my wedding ring...it no longer fits.

Relaxing in my soaking tub with the Water up to my chin.

[Krestel 330]

2 hours ago, Ti11y said:

Relaxing in my soaking tub with the Water up to my chin.

Fitting in a tun without worrying about not fitting or bot being able to get up,

[Teri B 42]

I don't know if these are strange but:

- getting on an airplane. I can fit in an airplane now but I want everyone around me to be comfortable.

- so I can throw EVERY LAST ugly fat clothing I own away!. I have clothing down to size 16 and I can not wait until I can give it ALL to goodwill and start afresh!

- to (eventually) have a boyfriend. Let's be honest, the only reason I don't is because I am fat. I do not blame men, I am not attracted to fat people either. It is a preference.

- to have sex again without a tank top on.

- to be able to clean myself better! It does make a difference.

- to shop for clothes that I actually LIKE..

- to wear a non-skirt bathing suit. maybe never a bikini but a nice one-piece or tankini would be nice!

- to prove T every one of the people talking behind my back, that I in fact can and will succeed...

I am sure there are more!

Teri

Edited May 14, 2019 by Teri B

[AngieBear 2,524]

For my stomach to shrink enough that I feel comfortable trail running in just a sports bra and shorts. Fresh air on bare skin while running is heavenly.

[gsgbutterfly 15]

Not being the biggest person in the room.

Sitting in a chair without the arms pressing into my sides.

Sitting on an airplane without a seat extension
-getting of of high blood pressure mess
-getting rid of this miserable CPAP
-even being able to consider walking/running a 5K.
-having a toned body instead of one that feels like Jello.
-being able to shop in stores other than Catherines and Lane Bryant
-not having to ask salesladies in the plus size Dept “what’s the largest size you go up to?”
-being able to walk up a flight of stairs without the person on the phone asking me “Why are you breathing so hard all of a sudden?”
-being full after eating a small portion instead of having three plates For dinner.
-the biggest one is feeling comfortable in my skin. I know it sounds strange but sometimes I just can’t get comfortable, as if my skin is the wrong size or doesn’t fit correctly.
- FREEDOM FRIM FEELING MISERABLE EVERY DAY!

[DanieHall 46]

Not sure if mine are weird...but:

1. Being able to wear shorts and skirts in the summer and to not feel like I am a complete lard failure if I throw on a tank top.

2. To run a 5k - looking to sign up for one in the fall for motivation and to reach this goal.

3. To be happy with who I am - this weight is the only thing about myself that I truly hate.

4. To make my husband proud of me...don’t get me wrong he is freaking awesome, has never ONCE treated me badly or made me feel like I am less than great because of my weight. Just want to be able to go out in public and not think in the back of my mind how I would be embarrassed to be seen with me. It’s a weird psychological thing.

5. To be able to fit in seats and not feel like I’m squishing the person next to me.

[Krestel 330]

On 5/14/2019 at 11:18 PM, Teri B said:

- so I can throw EVERY LAST ugly fat clothing I own away!. I have clothing down to size 16 and I can not wait until I can give it ALL to goodwill and start afresh!

Amen girl, AAAAmen!

[Frustr8 7,886]

You will be BLESSED and ready to DRESS TO IMPRESS! No more UGLY, just new and pretty things to go around in and live your New lifestyle.

[Krestel 330]

1 hour ago, Frustr8 said:

You will be BLESSED and ready to DRESS TO IMPRESS! No more UGLY, just new and pretty things to go around in and live your New lifestyle.

And a bit poorer along the way....but MUCH happier!