Frustr8 7,886 Posted March 15, 2019 I miss the old ME the happy ME the fun to be around ME the content to be where I was at ME the gone ME Will the new ME I am constructing. be a good enough ME to last me the rest of my Life!😭😪😥💦 1 Krimsonbutterflies reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
looly 361 Posted March 15, 2019 3 hours ago, Frustr8 said: I miss the old ME the happy ME the fun to be around ME the content to be where I was at ME the gone ME Will the new ME I am constructing. be a good enough ME to last me the rest of my Life!😭😪😥💦 The 'old you' could not have been that happy, or you wouldn't have had the surgery. However, any radical change is a shock to the system, so I'm sending you a virtual hug. xx 1 Catherine Wible reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NYC_PAULA 194 Posted March 28, 2019 I don't notice a difference when I look in the mirror but I do notice a difference when I look at photos week over week. 1 Krimsonbutterflies reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
november11 970 Posted October 15, 2019 wow I am pre op for November 11th and I soooo can not relate or imagine feeling what you guys are odviously going through..wow…. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
november11 970 Posted March 9, 2020 On 10/15/2019 at 3:31 PM, november11 said: wow I am pre op for November 11th and I soooo can not relate or imagine feeling what you guys are odviously going through..wow…. recap...it's now 4 months later and I can relate but....look.... 2 summerset and RobertaMSN reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lrdoflamancha 6 Posted March 9, 2020 Aye the gift.... the gifty gee us... To see ourselves as others see us. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AJ Tylo 1,399 Posted March 9, 2020 Its a mind game Just recently i can see the difference, Took me 6 months - I can look at a picture of before and after That i clearly see but the mirror? Mind games. Its all a game and common - But one thing i do know, I feel way better so not really concerned with this mind game Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sarah1216 8 Posted March 9, 2020 I still see the old me when I look in the mirror. It takes a photo to make me see the new me. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ostflicka 37 Posted March 9, 2020 On 3/14/2019 at 10:18 PM, Frustr8 said: I miss the old ME the happy ME the fun to be around ME the content to be where I was at ME the gone ME Will the new ME I am constructing. be a good enough ME to last me the rest of my Life!😭😪😥💦 Wow you are going through the weightloss depression bad. I hope there is someone IRL you can talk to you. You are the same you with some minor adjustments. Have you been doing to group or anything. I am so sorry you're feeling this way. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jg7979 48 Posted March 9, 2020 I didn’t recognize myself in a photo at work. After asking myself “who the hell is that?”, it clicked. The mind definitely takes longer to catch up... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
123456789#$% 12 Posted March 10, 2020 I myself see it, and the numbers prove it, but I don't seem to understand why other people don't see it, must be some kind of psychological tick. And humans are very jealous creatures lol. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites