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You might remember my wonderful 15 year young grandson died in a tragic accident January 3rd.

My 88 year old mom died 7 weeks later!! (quality of life?) 15 vs 88? what's wrong with this picture?

mourning forever - but life must/does continue- Kathy

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@proud grammy I'm so sorry for your losses!!! You and your family remain in my prayers and I know that God has you all in His powerful hands. There are no words or answers to explain this--but I do believe that God is as sad as you to have them with Him perhaps prematurely! ((hugs))

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My prayers are with you. Big hug and kiss coming your way.

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Oh My, Proud Grammy, I can't scarcely believe it. Yes Life does go on but I think you must be reeling about now, hold tight, remember the love that you had for them and they had for you. My Kevin died the day of our Aunt Ruth's funeral, she was like a " second mother" to my husband. It gave me a little peace to believe Kevin didn't have to be as scared of Heaven with Aunt Ruth there, They had a very close relationship while they both were earthbound, perhaps it will be,like that for Andrew and your. mom, at least it gives me peace to believe it. And remember , you are assured of our love and prayerful support Kathy! Hugs on this difficult day!

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7 minutes ago, Frustr8 said:

Oh My, Proud Grammy, I can't scarcely believe it. Yes Life does go on but I think you must be reeling about now, hold tight, remember the love that you had for them and they had for you. My Kevin died the day of our Aunt Ruth's funeral, she was like a " second mother" to my husband. It gave me a little peace to believe Kevin didn't have to be as scared of Heaven with Aunt Ruth there, They had a very close relationship while they both were earthbound, perhaps it will be,like that for Andrew and your. mom, at least it gives me peace to believe it. And remember , you are assured of our love and prayerful support Kathy! Hugs on this difficult day!

So sorry for you loss Kathy...It does not matter what age, we all love our family and do not want to see them leave us. I pray that God gives you the strength to endure this difficult time. HUGS!!

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1 hour ago, proudgrammy said:

You might remember my wonderful 15 year young grandson died in a tragic accident January 3rd.

My 88 year old mom died 7 weeks later!! (quality of life?) 15 vs 88? what's wrong with this picture?

mourning forever - but life must/does continue- Kathy

💗 So very sorry for your loss, prayers for your family 💗

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I’m so sorry Kathy! I think one of the cruelest things with grief is that life around us just goes on as normal while we crumble into a thousand pieces. I’m truly heartbroken for your family and lift you all in prayer.

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So sorry

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I'm so sorry - much love to you and your family ❤️

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So sorry for your profound losses. Prayers and love sent your way. ❤️

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I am so sorry for your losses, Kathy. Praying for strength and solace for you and your family. ((hugs))

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DAMN IM SORRY KATHY FOR YOUR LOSS AGAIN KEEP YOU CHIN UP LIFE DOES GO ON I PROMISE POSITIVE THOUGHTS SENT TO YOU WITH A BIG HUG (NOT AS BIG AS I ONCE WAS STILL GOT GOOD HUGS THOUGH )

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I am so deeply sorry for the loss of your precious grandson and loving mother

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I'm so sorry, Kathy. That is a lot of loss in a such a short amount of time. I will say a prayer for you and your family. Hugs to you.

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