FancyChristine15 810 Posted January 25, 2019 This has nothing to do with weight loss or surgery or anything. I'm self diagnosing here... I'm pretty sure I have something called Misophonia, which, according to WebMD is a "disorder in which certain sounds trigger emotional or physiological responses that some might perceive as unreasonable give the circumstance". Certain noises DRIVE ME NUTS! I can't stand mouth noises in particular. Mouth noises are lip smacking, throat clearing, loud chewing, etc...... It's the worst!!!! Of course, a coworker does all of these things, so I feel insane right now! UGH!!! I wish I could just not let it bother me, but that's not how this works. 3 1 1 ABawdyMermaid, ProudGrammy, rs and 2 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jazzy1125 1,010 Posted January 25, 2019 Try listening to music while you are working so you cant hear it. Good Luck 2 1 FancyChristine15, rs and LaNueva_Janie reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FancyChristine15 810 Posted January 25, 2019 42 minutes ago, Jazzy1125 said: Try listening to music while you are working so you cant hear it. Good Luck Appreciate it. I do when I'm able to. It's a life saver! 1 rs reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ed_NW 684 Posted January 25, 2019 I'm the same way. I have to keep some background noise going on whenever possible. 2 rs and FancyChristine15 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
KimTriesRNY 1,853 Posted January 25, 2019 Hehe. I thought I was the only one irritated by this. I also get irritated by hearing other people breathe. Why are you breathing so loud! Breathe quietly darn it! 1 3 Orchids&Dragons, Frustr8, FancyChristine15 and 1 other reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Orchids&Dragons 9,047 Posted January 25, 2019 1 hour ago, KimTriesRNY said: Hehe. I thought I was the only one irritated by this. I also get irritated by hearing other people breathe. Why are you breathing so loud! Breathe quietly darn it! Or just STOP! 😂 1 2 tdboutwell, Frustr8 and rs reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rs 1,473 Posted January 26, 2019 Me too! Didn't realize there was a medical term for it. 1 1 Frustr8 and FancyChristine15 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jazzy1125 1,010 Posted January 26, 2019 Totally Understand! I too put background music on when people make so much noise especially when i am trying to focus on work. I do ask myself.. Is that really necessary! When i am meaning to say it to them. I find it much more polite to ask it to myself quietly LOL 3 Frustr8, FancyChristine15 and rs reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
KT1981 294 Posted January 26, 2019 I also genuinely believe I have misophonia specific to mouth sounds, including throat clearing. People love to joke about it (myself included) but it actually sucks. I hate myself for sometimes hating members of my own family for doing totally normal things like chewing their food! In the last several years I've noticed that this extends to utensil sounds during eating- clanking spoons in bowls, specifically. 4 FancyChristine15, LaNueva_Janie, rs and 1 other reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frustr8 7,886 Posted January 28, 2019 I didn't realize there was such a thing or that it has a name. Learning a lot on Bariatric Pal.😝 1 1 FancyChristine15 and Frustr8 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NYJenn 1,463 Posted January 28, 2019 Last time I was at the movies, the woman next to me was dipping her fingers in the nacho cheese and sucking it off. It was the loudest most foul noise I had ever heard. I looked right at her, just staring at her. Finally she stopped 2 Frustr8 and FancyChristine15 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Stella S 612 Posted January 28, 2019 It seems in this hyper-aroused world persons increasing struggle with both filtering stimuli and social norms. Was at a graduation where nachos and chili dogs were sold... for the audience. A person completes medical school and graduates and the audience can not go 2 hours without food and electronics??!! Too much stimulation leads to an over active nervous system. 1 1 Frustr8 and FancyChristine15 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frustr8 7,886 Posted January 28, 2019 How about humming? Sat next to one of those, remember more of that then the presentation I paid good money to see! 1 FancyChristine15 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LaNueva_Janie 143 Posted January 28, 2019 This has nothing to do with weight loss or surgery or anything. I'm self diagnosing here... I'm pretty sure I have something called Misophonia, which, according to WebMD is a "disorder in which certain sounds trigger emotional or physiological responses that some might perceive as unreasonable give the circumstance". Certain noises DRIVE ME NUTS! I can't stand mouth noises in particular. Mouth noises are lip smacking, throat clearing, loud chewing, etc...... It's the worst!!!! Of course, a coworker does all of these things, so I feel insane right now! UGH!!! I wish I could just not let it bother me, but that's not how this works. OMG! I thought I was the only one with this problem. I was also getting irritated with my coworkers during lunch cause of chewing noises. If im done eating i could hear their chewing. Ugh! I feel anger..i feel my blood boil..it really scares me.I dont know why!? At home with my family before surgery I would tell them to eat then I would sit by myself to eat or I would eat at the same time, like a race and make sure I ate at the same pace so that I don't hear them chew. It's terrible, frustrates me. Now I have the excuse that because I had surgery I always eat at my own little table with my own food, at work I eat in my office not in the lounge anymore. So it has helped. But when this happens I have to remind myself that I'm the one with this problem before I tell anybody off because i have told people things then regret it. [emoji57] [emoji16] Sent from my SM-G950U using BariatricPal mobile app 2 FancyChristine15 and Frustr8 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frustr8 7,886 Posted January 28, 2019 Makes you feel like you're in the middle of barn animals all loudly chewing their cud. 2 LaNueva_Janie and FancyChristine15 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites