Abbey M. 69 Posted January 5, 2019 Getting ready to have surgery on Monday. Excited but then have bouts of being SUPER scared and nervous! Wondering how it’s going to be and if I’m going to have regrets. I want to know I made the right decision. 😞 after 5 months of preparing, years of failed diets and regains, I made this decision. And I can’t help but feeing nervous and wondering if it was the right one. Anybody else feel that way? 3 1 ShrinkingTN- hopefully, RiaR, KayC12019 and 1 other reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DeeberLee 300 Posted January 5, 2019 Hi BrookeP21, I told my surgeon I was having second thoughts on the day of surgery! Luckily I came to my senses . This is a life changing event, so of course you're going to be nervous. To me the WLS was worth it. Everything I went through to get to this point was worth it. Good luck to you. 1 Abbey M. reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ellens531 81 Posted January 5, 2019 I go in on the 15th. I also keep having second thoughts. I guess it's normal. Good luck to you and I'll catch you on the losers bench soonSent from my SM-G965U using BariatricPal mobile app 1 Abbey M. reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Abbey M. 69 Posted January 5, 2019 Thank you both! I am going to keep thinking positive and remember why I made the decision to begin with 🙂 2 KayC12019 and Ellens531 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Letsgetgoing2018 448 Posted January 5, 2019 Keep moving forward. You’ll do great. Tons of support here for you. Best of luck to you! 1 Abbey M. reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Abbey M. 69 Posted January 5, 2019 Thank you!!! I’m so happy I found this forum! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hopping To It 25 Posted January 5, 2019 You got this girl. Just think of how you are going to feel a few months down the road 1 Abbey M. reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Veronica Garza 16 Posted January 5, 2019 Hi well good luck to you it will be a good change for you my VSG was just approved not sure when my surgery will be I’m nervous also but just think it’s a short time in your life it will go by so fast sending good thoughts and vibes 1 Abbey M. reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kris77 1,538 Posted January 5, 2019 Good luck to you too! Had mine in July and have NO REGRETS! Normal to be nervous...it is surgery. Just think when you wake up you won't be hungry anymore!! That was big for me bc when I would diet I would get myself so hungry that I'd binge on whatever it was then feel bad. Now I never get hungry. Good luck Monday!! Welcome to the club!! 2 RiaR and Abbey M. reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kris77 1,538 Posted January 5, 2019 Still have mental cravings (bad habits) and weaknesses but I'm learning and trying to retrain my brain. I've had slip ups too. I just get back up and try and do better next time. Usually you can. I find that making better choices is easier when you don't have that ravenous feeling. 1 Abbey M. reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kris77 1,538 Posted January 5, 2019 Are you sleeving or banding? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Abbey M. 69 Posted January 5, 2019 On 01/05/2019 at 16:36, Kris77 said: Are you sleeving or banding?I am having a sleeve done. I’m excited to finally be here.....just nervous which I’m learning is super common haha Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kris77 1,538 Posted January 5, 2019 It is!! Think my surgery was like 45 min long. 1 Abbey M. reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kris77 1,538 Posted January 5, 2019 I also had a hiatal hernia repair as well. 1 Abbey M. reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kris77 1,538 Posted January 5, 2019 You will do great. My favorite thing is my clothes getting so baggy. Start weight was 238. Day of surgery was 221 and currently I'm 167. Goal is 135-140. Hell I'm just glad to be in the, as someone else put it in "1-derland". Been a long time since I had seen the 100s! 1 Abbey M. reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites