Huge influx of random flirting

[Polymorphing 60]

I'm absolutely SHOCKED at how many times I get hit on now vs before weight loss. Is that how normal people have to live?! It was nice at first but honestly it stresses me out and distracts me now. HOW DO I FIX THIS. Anyone else going through the same thing? It took me a while to realize all those people have been mildly flirting till my friend pointed it out because I just thought everyone was nice (I recently moved to a new city lol). It's ridiculous because I never thought my looks had *that* much to do with it. Jeez. It's not like I'm more confident now or anything either.

[BeanieSprouts 171]

I've noticed this too, unfortunately not any welcome attention. :c Mostly just men sending me pictures of their genitalia on Facebook, to which I reply with pictures of hot dogs being sliced up.

[elcee 3,342]

Seems there are definite advantages to being öld"!

[FluffyChix 17,418]

1 hour ago, BeanieSprouts said:

I've noticed this too, unfortunately not any welcome attention. :c Mostly just men sending me pictures of their genitalia on Facebook, to which I reply with pictures of hot dogs being sliced up.

Dayum. Not that I want it. But I've been on "The Facebook" since it came out and never once have I gotten a gratuitous d**k pic. LOL. I must be living wrong or something. ROFLMAO.

[GreenTealael 25,443]

6 hours ago, Polymorphing said:

I'm absolutely SHOCKED at how many times I get hit on now vs before weight loss. Is that how normal people have to live?! It was nice at first but honestly it stresses me out and distracts me now. HOW DO I FIX THIS. Anyone else going through the same thing? It took me a while to realize all those people have been mildly flirting till my friend pointed it out because I just thought everyone was nice (I recently moved to a new city lol). It's ridiculous because I never thought my looks had *that* much to do with it. Jeez. It's not like I'm more confident now or anything either.

Yes it's disgusting. Makes me distrust humans.

[Walter.Sobchak 978]

On 11/28/2018 at 15:25, FluffyChix said:

Dayum. Not that I want it. But I've been on "The Facebook" since it came out and never once have I gotten a gratuitous d**k pic. LOL. I must be living wrong or something. ROFLMAO.

Send me your email address and I will hit you up with a pic of my schwanns free of charge.
All kidding aside I had so much game I got hit on all the time even when I weighed 440 pounds.

I have noticed women seem to smile at me more now that I am down 90 pounds.

[FluffyChix 17,418]

8 hours ago, Walter.Sobchak said:

Send me your email address and I will hit you up with a pic of my schwanns free of charge.
All kidding aside I had so much game I got hit on all the time even when I weighed 440 pounds.

I have noticed women seem to smile at me more now that I am down 90 pounds.

That’s a very kind offer.🎈😂🎈

[abefroman329 704]

16 hours ago, elcee said:

Seems there are definite advantages to being öld"!

A few months ago, I was talking to a single woman in her late 40s, and she said men send her unsolicited d**k pics too.

[BeanieSprouts 171]

16 hours ago, FluffyChix said:

Dayum. Not that I want it. But I've been on "The Facebook" since it came out and never once have I gotten a gratuitous d**k pic. LOL. I must be living wrong or something. ROFLMAO.

I know!!! It never happened to me, and then all of a sudden I had like three in one day! and I hadn't even REPLIED to their messages. Just "Hi, hello beautiful" and then BAM! A pen!s. LOL!

[FluffyChix 17,418]

Just now, BeanieSprouts said:

I know!!! It never happened to me, and then all of a sudden I had like three in one day! and I hadn't even REPLIED to their messages. Just "Hi, hello beautiful" and then BAM! A pen!s. LOL!

Outstanding! hahaha! WTG girl and congrats on looking F-I-N-E!

[Walter.Sobchak 978]

On 11/29/2018 at 07:57, abefroman329 said:

A few months ago, I was talking to a single woman in her late 40s, and she said men send her unsolicited d**k pics too.

Here’s the stupid part, women do not want pics of some random dudes donger. In the history of dating, a random donger pic has never led to a date led alone a long term relationship. Some men are so stupid.

[sillykitty 10,780]

1 minute ago, Walter.Sobchak said:

30 minutes ago, abefroman329 said:

A few months ago, I was talking to a single woman in her late 40s, and she said men send her unsolicited d**k pics too

Here’s the stupid part, women do not want pics of some random dudes donger. In the history of dating, a random donger pic has never led to a date led alone a long term relationship. Some men are so stupid.

So true!

I've always taken it as more of a power play, or exhibitionism vs. anyone really thinking it would lead to sex though

[FluffyChix 17,418]

One word...

Narcissism.

LOL!

[GreenTealael 25,443]

1 hour ago, sillykitty said:

So true!

I've always taken it as more of a power play, or exhibitionism vs. anyone really thinking it would lead to sex though

1 hour ago, Walter.Sobchak said:

2 hours ago, abefroman329 said:

A few months ago, I was talking to a single woman in her late 40s, and she said men send her unsolicited d**k pics too.

Here’s the stupid part, women do not want pics of some random dudes donger. In the history of dating, a random donger pic has never led to a date led alone a long term relationship. Some men are so stupid.

And no guy really ever wants pics of women spread eagle, no matter what they say... 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Edited November 29, 2018 by GreenTealael

[Shoelace 63]

Oh my! Thus my years of avoiding any kind of dating sites..no time for navigating through all the crap! Some are lucky and maybe didn't have to wade through all that! I have actually worked with men who think that part of their body is the best part they have and think that others will admire it! Not many, but a few. Sad.....