fandangle 13 Posted September 22, 2018 Really upset with myself, i have put on 5lb in 4 weeks because of food funerals . I am really lucky and only need to pre op diet for 1 week, op is on 10/10, but am really upset with myself, i cried to myself (yes I am on meds for that.) anyone else feeling or felt like this? 1 Orchids&Dragons reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lynn Cannon 49 Posted September 22, 2018 We all have done the food funerals. I did mine right up until I had to start the prep diet. I gained too - might have been the large cheese with extra cheese pizza I had!!!! It will come off. Be dedicated to the prep diet, very important to get you in the best shape for your surgery. No more tears, you ARE doing this and not alone. 2 AggiG and Orchids&Dragons reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Orchids&Dragons 9,047 Posted September 22, 2018 40 minutes ago, fandangle said: Really upset with myself, i have put on 5lb in 4 weeks because of food funerals . I am really lucky and only need to pre op diet for 1 week, op is on 10/10, but am really upset with myself, i cried to myself (yes I am on meds for that.) anyone else feeling or felt like this? I finished the last bottle of wine in my fridge on the first day of my liquid diet! 7 sillykitty, JustMeInCleveland, Sleeved36 and 4 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lynn Cannon 49 Posted September 23, 2018 Now that’s funny 🤪🍷🍷🍷🍷🍷 1 1 Orchids&Dragons and Spellbound reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
YeahOkay31 651 Posted September 23, 2018 I put on 5 pounds in a week with my food funeral. I think most of us do it, we are human. Food is a huge part of our lives, we need to mourn. Don't beat your self up over it. 2 Beachladee3 and Orchids&Dragons reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sillykitty 10,780 Posted September 23, 2018 I had nothing but food funerals the 3 weeks between approval and my surgery date. I have no regrets whatsoever. It has not hindered my weight loss post op. 1 MargoCL reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MargoCL 677 Posted September 23, 2018 My food funeral was the day before my preop liquid diet began. My bf cooked all my favorites in moderation so I was able to fully indulge without guilt. I didn't gain that day, but didn't lose either. LOL, could help that the 8 mos leading up to that day I had already cut most bad for me things out. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AggiG 176 Posted September 23, 2018 I keep gaining and losing but have decided that it is time to stick to my weight loss plan. I'm not very good a losing weight but I'm not doing too bad (could do better tho). 1 Frustr8 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frustr8 7,886 Posted September 24, 2018 The Bible says This too shall pass. I take 💓 in this, doesn't say we are stuck with anything I can't bear!👍😝 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
megolego 69 Posted September 26, 2018 On 9/22/2018 at 6:35 PM, fandangle said: Really upset with myself, i have put on 5lb in 4 weeks because of food funerals . I am really lucky and only need to pre op diet for 1 week, op is on 10/10, but am really upset with myself, i cried to myself (yes I am on meds for that.) anyone else feeling or felt like this? I know I have probably have gained a few pounds ( I am not looking until my appointment with the surgeon next month) but I am trying to not give in to the guilt and trying to enjoy the "forbidden stuff" while I can Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sleeved36 356 Posted September 26, 2018 I had food funerals too. Don't panic, after your belly heals you can eat your favorite foods again, just much much less of them. Before everyone freaks out and questions everything about my lifestyle, diet, and dedication to the process; please keep reading. I follow my post op diet and exercise. I am steadily losing weight. That doesn't mean that I don't occasionally have a few bites of something or wine, just to stay sane. I think that if I really thought through the fact that I am changing my life, but not giving up everything forever; I wouldn't have had so many food funerals. 1 Orchids&Dragons reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lynn Cannon 49 Posted September 27, 2018 Love your post sleeved36 and is so real. I am 5 weeks post op and have lost 31 lbs (including preop). We are heading towards way smaller portions of the food we love on occasion not all the time . 1 1 Orchids&Dragons and Sleeved36 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fandangle 13 Posted September 27, 2018 4 hours ago, Sleeved36 said: I had food funerals too. Don't panic, after your belly heals you can eat your favorite foods again, just much much less of them. Before everyone freaks out and questions everything about my lifestyle, diet, and dedication to the process; please keep reading. I follow my post op diet and exercise. I am steadily losing weight. That doesn't mean that I don't occasionally have a few bites of something or wine, just to stay sane. I think that if I really thought through the fact that I am changing my life, but not giving up everything forever; I wouldn't have had so many food funerals. thanks so much, for this, I guess that its all facing the unknowen, Its really babd that I enjoy the felling all these foods give me, but am hoping that this surgery will help me with my emotional eating. Dam you chocolate grrrrrrrr 1 Sleeved36 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites