looly 361 Posted September 9, 2018 2 hours ago, J San said: Why take anything in a literal sense? I took it literally because there didn't seem to be anything metaphorical about it. Don't mind me - I'm just being facetious! But I do agree with you - if you don't like an article, pass on and ignore it, because someone else might find it useful. I was jut putting an alternative point of view. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
J San 1,071 Posted September 9, 2018 I wasn't targeting you with what I typed. I liked your comment a lot and agree with it. I'm that way in certain situations. It was just a general statement. Maybe I should have said, Don't take it as gospel? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GreenTealael 25,439 Posted September 9, 2018 This is helpful for people who respond well to this type of encouragement, not helpful for people who don't... 2 rs and RHCD reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CrankyMagpie 509 Posted September 10, 2018 Yeah... the tone of this is definitely not my thing, but I'm glad that others found it motivating/helpful! 1 rs reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kjohnson*1 27 Posted September 10, 2018 Preach it! Hell yea! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
summerset 5,265 Posted September 10, 2018 (edited) 10 hours ago, GreenTealael said: This is helpful for people who respond well to this type of encouragement, not helpful for people who don't... It's just an impression of course but I have a feeling that this kind of pep-talk is very appealing to people who are currently "in the groove" with high motivation going on and who're doing great at the moment anyway. So it might not (only) depend on personality but it might also depend on the circumstances one is currently in. Edited September 10, 2018 by summerset 4 GreenTealael, Orchids&Dragons, Neversaynever and 1 other reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GreenTealael 25,439 Posted September 11, 2018 15 hours ago, summerset said: It's just an impression of course but I have a feeling that this kind of pep-talk is very appealing to people who are currently "in the groove" with high motivation going on and who're doing great at the moment anyway. So it might not (only) depend on personality but it might also depend on the circumstances one is currently in. Oddly I got the opposite impression, I felt like this is helpful for the lamenters who feel sorry for themselves that respond well to tough love or reality checks,(no offense meant to anyone) this type of thing goes right over my head though... does nothing for me personally. 1 FluffyChix reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
summerset 5,265 Posted September 11, 2018 The only thing I definitely know about this issue is this: let me read something like this after a 24 h shift and I'm tempted to roll the author down a steep hill in a barrel just to shut him or her up. So as I said, depending on the circumstances one is in... (Anybody wants to guess now what my work day was like?) 1 1 rs and FluffyChix reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Neversaynever 268 Posted January 8, 2019 Bumping this in case any newbies out there find this helpful 1 Frustr8 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
April Michelle 4 Posted January 9, 2019 What a great article. Thank you for sharing. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
stellab53 2 Posted January 9, 2019 Ok 👍🏾 I get it!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites