Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

One month post op and gained! I'm going crazy!



Recommended Posts

I have lost quite a bit since surgery last month, but the past couple of days I've gained 3-4 pounds. I also started solids around the same time so I'm not sure if that's the cause. I'm terrified that I have already failed. Is this normal? I'm going crazy with fear!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

21 minutes ago, ShimmyShade said:

I have lost quite a bit since surgery last month, but the past couple of days I've gained 3-4 pounds. I also started solids around the same time so I'm not sure if that's the cause. I'm terrified that I have already failed. Is this normal? I'm going crazy with fear!

That's 100% normal and expected. Whenever we make adjustments to our diets, our bodies react. Some folks just stall out for a while, some gain.

If you are following your doctors orders, not over eating, getting in anywhere near the Protein and Water you are supposed to be getting and are doing some form of daily exercise... then stop worrying and stop focusing on the short term. This whole process is the long way around, no shortcuts. So, just keep doing what you are supposed to, and focus on the long game.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

15 minutes ago, Matt Z said:

That's 100% normal and expected. Whenever we make adjustments to our diets, our bodies react. Some folks just stall out for a while, some gain.

If you are following your doctors orders, not over eating, getting in anywhere near the Protein and Water you are supposed to be getting and are doing some form of daily exercise... then stop worrying and stop focusing on the short term. This whole process is the long way around, no shortcuts. So, just keep doing what you are supposed to, and focus on the long game.

Thank you, I was so scared this wasn't normal. It's a relief to know it is.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

18 minutes ago, ShimmyShade said:

Thank you, I was so scared this wasn't normal. It's a relief to know it is.

I've had so many times where I've stalled for weeks or gained, but my body fat was still dropping. Something else to be aware of, you CAN be losing fat and not losing "weight".

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

The fluids and fat shift around, the body is healing, your intestines are adjusting to solid food - drawing liquid, etc. This will happen all throughout the journey. Stalls will happen, but usually you will lose inches during a stall, even clothing sizes will drop then.

Up your liquid intake and in a few days things will even out.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Thanks for posting this! I'm in the same boat, though I'm just two weeks post-op. I'd been losing steadily, but have stalled for a few days, then actually gained. I expected this to happen at some point, just not so soon!

All your advice makes a ton of sense. It's still frustrating to see, but good to know we are not alone!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

No never alone, it's more common than we would want to think. We want the weight to fly off our bodies, instead we plod👣 along, but guess what? We still get where we want to go in the end!🌈

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • Bashbee91

      Hey guys new to the process looking forward to this new life. 
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Bugg

      Hi everyone! I’m brand new here. I just went through all my pre-op requirements per my insurance company and now everything has been submitted and I’m just waiting for final approval and my surgery date. I’ve been doing research, watching YouTube videos, TikTok’s, ect.. trying to prepare my mind and what to expect so I’ll be ready for the surgery. I was so sure and so set and so ready and excited. However, now that I’ve done everything & it’s almost here, I am sooooooo scared! I know why I want it bc I’ve tried everything and I just don’t feel like I can lose weight by myself. I’m tired of being overweight my entire life. I’m miserable, but I keep psyching myself out afraid of GERD bc I know how that can be and I don’t want to have to get a bypass after already gaining the courage to even get VSG. I’m scared of complications like I’mgoing to regret doing it and be depressed that I didn’t just be more disciplined and try again to lose the weight on my own even sitting here typing this knowing in my mind i just can’t and don’t possess the discipline. I’m also afraid I won’t be able to handle the restrictions of the sleeve. What do I eat? I don’t know how to eat healthy really and don’t enjoy healthy food. I don’t know how to do this! I feel so defeated!Someone tell me they felt anything similar to this or am I not ready? I thought I was. I am so tired of being sick and tired and so tired of myself and so tired of being stuck and stuck in this body and somebody different on the outside from what I feel inside. I just want to ball up and cry.
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • buildabetteranna

      over 20 lbs down since4 the pre surgery diet and surgery on the 14th
      · 1 reply
      1. Selina333

        Yay!! Congrats. I know how good that feels. 🤩

    • Jenopolis

      Had a sleeve in 2017, lost over 100 pounds. Had a DS surgery this year (2025) for more sustainable weight loss. 🤞
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • buildabetteranna

      The 14th was my day. I am home and recovery is going pretty smooth. They even let me walk out of the hospital. Picture of me in recovery curtesy of my boyfriend lol. 

      · 3 replies
      1. DaisyChainOz

        Glad it went well!! Wishing you a speedy recovery and wonderful success!! 🤗

      2. buildabetteranna

        Thank you ❤️

      3. Selina333

        Neat you have a pic of this day! I was sooo happy to get my surgery. It was well worth it! And I'm not even near my goal. I had surgery Dec. 2!

  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×