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Hello!! I’m 4 months post-op, I was sleeved on 1/17/18. My SW was 331, current weight is 273. I have been feeling so scared and nervous about over eating and stretching my sleeve. I haven’t been over eating but I feel like I can or will, idk it’s hard to explain. Can someone offer some kind word of encouragement or share a story of their struggles? Please and thank you!!

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6 hours ago, CassO said:

Hello!! I’m 4 months post-op, I was sleeved on 1/17/18. My SW was 331, current weight is 273. I have been feeling so scared and nervous about over eating and stretching my sleeve. I haven’t been over eating but I feel like I can or will, idk it’s hard to explain. Can someone offer some kind word of encouragement or share a story of their struggles? Please and thank you!!

You got this!, Think of all the reasons why you started this journey, and keep them to the front of your mind and stay focussed. Good Luck and All the Best.

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It does get challenging...I know...I'm currently going through it. I was sleeved on Jan 19th...I'm down 54 pounds but I'm at a 3 week stall...im finding myself wanting Snacks chips Cookies etc....I do eat one or two but I have to look in the mirror to see how far the Lord has brought me and REALITY HITS...I've come a long way don't screw it up now...so my advice....look in the mirror at yourself see your results no matter if it's 20 30 40 pounds we would never have been this far without the surgery...doing it on our own 10 pounds maybe in 5 months lol...truly....but youre doing great dont fear of overeating or stretching your tool...still enjoy foods but count the calories and embrace your new look...its still an ongoing journey.

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I've purchased some really great Snacks from The Bariatric Store and they're great. I don't feel like I'm cheating because its healthy. Don't overthink...you can do this. We're in this together and won't let you fall.

HW: 256
SW: 238(4/25/18)
CW: 224
GW: 165

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Thank you so much for your encouragement!! I needed it!! and good luck to all on your journeys!

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I wouldn't worry too much about stretching out your sleeve. Yes, it's possible to do it, but, from what I've read, it's not easy. You would have to overeat multiple meals in a row to be able to stretch out your sleeve; since you aren't doing that, I'd say you'll be okay. Best of luck to you!

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