TakingABreak 2,733 Posted May 22, 2018 Ladies who are post op or who have lost a lot pre op thus far....HELP! My stomach is holding on to dear life! I'm so frustrated. I'm disappointed. I carry a lot of weight in my stomach, so it's natural that I still am struggling to loose there. But I'm 91lbs down and.... have went from a 24/26 to a 18/20. I have a couple pairs of stretchy work pants that are 16/18's. But I've only virtually went down 2 sizes. What gives people?!? 2 the_weigh_iam and Sigi42 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
saygrace 122 Posted May 22, 2018 I bet if you did a "mock" pre op diet that 6lbs would melt off. I lost around 25lbs doing the pre op diet.yes that’s what i’ve been thinking of doing! i just ordered my premier shakes so when they get here i think that’s what i’ll do Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
YeahOkay31 651 Posted May 22, 2018 (edited) 3 hours ago, AshAsh1 said: I can def see a difference in your waste! Glad you joined the group. Thanks! All I tend to notice is my boobs being gone! My gut is stubborn too, I have no idea how to tackle that. What stinks is my breasts and butt are getting smaller and making my gut look bigger. Do u go to a gym? Maybe a trainer would have some good tips. Edited May 22, 2018 by YeahOkay31 1 Sigi42 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
KimTriesRNY 1,853 Posted May 22, 2018 It is definitely challenging having close to 200 or more pounds to lose. Most of my adult life I hovered in the 270 range and gained and lost the same 20-30 pounds over and over again like many of us seemed to. I was able to lose small amounts of weight but never able to keep it off long term. The last few years before my surgery I felt stuck in a stressful job and discovered I was hypothyroid and this added over 100 pounds to my body. I was utterly and completely miserable. My highest known weight was 389 pounds and my consult weight was 384 pounds. My surgical weight was 369 pounds. Sometimes I do think about how things would be if I hadn’t let myself get so far down that road. Maybe I’d be close to goal if I would have had surgery at 270 vs 370 but this is defeatist thinking that is not helpful. I am really trying to focus on moving forward and not dwelling on the past. I am halfway to goal and if it takes me two years to get there then so be it. Getting to goal would mean a loss of 194 pounds for me, and that’s an enormous accomplishment. 7 KarenLR75, k_nephew, wowerinreally and 4 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frustr8 7,886 Posted May 22, 2018 And Kim I think you can do it. Accordiing to previous Bariatric Surgeon I am 180,lbs over-weight, if he didn't recognize,how wonderful I am, could he be wrong about that also? But anyway I am going to keep on keeping on until surgery and my new and improved life can start. Like you I don't know how long it will take to get down to my personal goal of weight but I am going to do it, Slim and trim I doubt but fitter and a smaller sitter, that I CAN ACHIEVE!😛👍 3 Sigi42, SydneySleever and clsumrall reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sprinkles1 358 Posted May 22, 2018 Ladies who are post op or who have lost a lot pre op thus far....HELP! My stomach is holding on to dear life! I'm so frustrated. I'm disappointed. I carry a lot of weight in my stomach, so it's natural that I still am struggling to loose there. But I'm 91lbs down and.... have went from a 24/26 to a 18/20. I have a couple pairs of stretchy work pants that are 16/18's. But I've only virtually went down 2 sizes. What gives people?!?How has your exercise been? I know personal trainers can be expensive but some gyms allow free trials. A personal trainer could give you some exercises specifically for your tummy area. Sent from my SM-G955U using BariatricPal mobile app Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fluffyandiknowit 16 Posted May 23, 2018 I’m starting at 350 I am also 5feet even and I feel like so many woman on here have started at like 250 or lower and I’m just sitting here like wow I wish I was 250 right now lol but my surgery is May 30th and I can’t be any more ready and nervous at the same time!! Here goes nothing! On to better health and a better life! We can all support each other I’d love to have someone to talk to along this journey!! 3 k_nephew, Sigi42 and Amber's Journey reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TakingABreak 2,733 Posted May 23, 2018 How has your exercise been? I know personal trainers can be expensive but some gyms allow free trials. A personal trainer could give you some exercises specifically for your tummy area. Sent from my SM-G955U using BariatricPal mobile appI was working out 5 days a week. Cardio for 30 mins and weight lifting for nearly an hour. It’s been a few weeks though because I’ve been swamped since summer commenced. But I’m getting back at it ASAP. 1 ProudGrammy reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TakingABreak 2,733 Posted May 23, 2018 It is definitely challenging having close to 200 or more pounds to lose. Most of my adult life I hovered in the 270 range and gained and lost the same 20-30 pounds over and over again like many of us seemed to. I was able to lose small amounts of weight but never able to keep it off long term. The last few years before my surgery I felt stuck in a stressful job and discovered I was hypothyroid and this added over 100 pounds to my body. I was utterly and completely miserable. My highest known weight was 389 pounds and my consult weight was 384 pounds. My surgical weight was 369 pounds. Sometimes I do think about how things would be if I hadn’t let myself get so far down that road. Maybe I’d be close to goal if I would have had surgery at 270 vs 370 but this is defeatist thinking that is not helpful. I am really trying to focus on moving forward and not dwelling on the past. I am halfway to goal and if it takes me two years to get there then so be it. Getting to goal would mean a loss of 194 pounds for me, and that’s an enormous accomplishment. I’m in the same boat! To be at ideal weight I need to loose 200lbs. My first goal is 150lbs though. 1 Sigi42 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TakingABreak 2,733 Posted May 23, 2018 It is definitely challenging having close to 200 or more pounds to lose. Most of my adult life I hovered in the 270 range and gained and lost the same 20-30 pounds over and over again like many of us seemed to. I was able to lose small amounts of weight but never able to keep it off long term. The last few years before my surgery I felt stuck in a stressful job and discovered I was hypothyroid and this added over 100 pounds to my body. I was utterly and completely miserable. My highest known weight was 389 pounds and my consult weight was 384 pounds. My surgical weight was 369 pounds. Sometimes I do think about how things would be if I hadn’t let myself get so far down that road. Maybe I’d be close to goal if I would have had surgery at 270 vs 370 but this is defeatist thinking that is not helpful. I am really trying to focus on moving forward and not dwelling on the past. I am halfway to goal and if it takes me two years to get there then so be it. Getting to goal would mean a loss of 194 pounds for me, and that’s an enormous accomplishment. I have similar regrets. I should have done this when I reached 250. Even 275. But I’m glad I finally did it. That’s all we can do. 3 KimTriesRNY, ProudGrammy and Sigi42 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ALFxRNY 540 Posted May 23, 2018 I’m 5’7” and at my heaviest I was 321 but when I started my journey I was 309. My surgery date is 6/28/18. At the end of my 7 months of required nutrition visits I was 283. But then I got on birth control and ballooned up to 294. I was told not to worry about it because the liquid diet will take the weight off but it is very annoying 🤦🏽♀️ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
patsmithabc 4 Posted May 23, 2018 Yes I did, I started at 324 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frustr8 7,886 Posted May 23, 2018 Well when I was in my mid 200s I thought I was fated to live out my life at 245-250, sure I knew it was,how the healthiest of sizes but at that I'd vary ⬆and⬇ the famous 5 pounds, then suddenly I ballooned out over 300 pounds, what happened? I really didn't get that much less active, then the pounds started sneaking on, I was holding uneasily at 325 pounds, Frussie old girl, I said we must bring the PCP into the mix because decreasing portion size and walking more was not helping. So off I marched my plump drumsticks,into the doctors office. Doctor Dear,I said , I think its time to enlist the help of a diet drug. So I got a script for Phenteramine and set out to use It. Oh I used it religiously, ever time I said "Oh Lord, Please make this work!" at the end of the month I marched into the office and climbed into the scale. Had I lost weight? Oh, no I had gained 30 bubbly pounds-- In strolled Dr PCP, took one look at my chart, uttered the professional equivalent of WTF and said I was going back to the Bariatric Surgeon, did I want him to make the appointment or would I go quietly and willingly? So off I went to Columbus, humbled myself and resumed with the same one I already went,through before, did everything over again and then still I got denied my surgery, so I'm,trying again once,more at perhaps where I should have been at the beginning, these people seem to truly want me, work with me and things look good. Have I lost bundles of weight? No just the evil 30 lbs and a little more, but I'm still sticking to it, even while it is so wearing. I have been in this fight since August 2015, Hector was a pup then and now he's a full grown dog. And people who started long after me receive their surgery, and like the world's oldest cheerleader, I wave my pompoms and urge them on. And they climb,to the top,them slide downhill on the other side into the future. Just a flash of light and then yet another ones gone. Thursday I find out,when, how soon and whether there is anything more to do, cause if there isn't give me the verdompt,surgery, give me a date. I'll hitch a ride if necessary, just give me a date to hang my hopes on. PLEASE?😪 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nschillinger 13 Posted May 23, 2018 I was 415 on the date of my surgery. I’m a year out and I’ve lost 130lbs! 12 1 LaLaDee, ProudGrammy, wowerinreally and 10 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
KimTriesRNY 1,853 Posted May 23, 2018 7 hours ago, nschillinger said: I was 415 on the date of my surgery. I’m a year out and I’ve lost 130lbs! That’s fantastic! 1 k_nephew reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites