abefroman329 704 Posted May 16, 2018 If I stayed at my current weight for the rest of my life, the surgery would be worth it. 3 Orchids&Dragons, GreenTealael and TakingABreak reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sleeved36 356 Posted May 16, 2018 I am 5'4" and was happy at an athletic 160. Maintained that weight for most of my 20's. It is still "overweight" on the bmi chart, but I don't care. Highest I want to be is 175. Surgery 6 days ago and down 12 lbs, just happy to be on my way! 2 ProudGrammy and GreenTealael reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Java 4 Posted May 16, 2018 First post of any kind here for me. Ill start by saying Im so excited for this journey! Surgery is coming in 5 days:) Im 289 lbs and thats definitely the heaviest I have ever been. Ideal weight...200 lbs. 3 GreenTealael, Orchids&Dragons and jennypenny1998 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jennypenny1998 41 Posted May 16, 2018 My highest weight has been 230 lbs, and I am now down to 170. I'm about 30 lbs away from my goal weight, but honestly, I'm pretty happy with where I am right now. Of course I want to get as close to my goal weight as possible, but I am grateful for what I have lost so far. I'm pretty happy with where I am now, but of course would want to lose more! I was at 174 for about 3 months and have just lost the 4 in the past two weeks. 2 Pisces2j7 and GreenTealael reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jdesmond73 138 Posted May 16, 2018 (edited) Was at my Doc last week and was told that they would like to see me get to 230 lbs and maintain. I realize that 230 is a large number but I’m 6’5” and a former Football player and I’ll always be a big guy. I am just north of 250 now. If I can get under 250 and stay under that number for the rest of my Life, I’ll be happy. Edited May 16, 2018 by Jdesmond73 2 GreenTealael and Orchids&Dragons reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frustr8 7,886 Posted May 16, 2018 I am 72 years old probably,last time I had BMI of proper level? 12 years old 110lb--5ft7in Bariatric Surgeon's,Goal weight 135-135lb. My Dream Goal Weight 175lb Acceptable Goal Weight <200lb- at 195lb I was still obese but muscular, flat-flanks, abs, nice backside and having to jab and repel unwelcome suitors with pointed stick. Ah the flat old days!Motivated enough to March toward that level with aid of my soon to,be installed "tool"😝👍😀 2 Orchids&Dragons and GreenTealael reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Syntax_Attack 76 Posted May 16, 2018 At my leanest I was about 185 and that was when I was rocking a six pack (ah those were the days ). So 200-210 would be pretty good for me, definitely don't want to get above 220. 1 GreenTealael reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frustr8 7,886 Posted May 16, 2018 Well my acceptable weight<200lbs At 195(and 21) maybe legally,obese but I looked so fine plenty guys chasing me all,the time If not six-pack abs -only a tiny keg a 2 handful backside, go-on- forever legs Still small enough to be swept up in a guys arms Sweet as honeycomb were my charms Might not be able to return to those days But willing to give it a shot anyway Perhaps when I get down to that size I'll have still enough charm to catch the right guy's eye. Well dang it, I'm giving it the ole📣 college try!!!😝👍😛 6 XYZXYZXYZ1955, ProudGrammy, okayestmom and 3 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
YeahOkay31 651 Posted May 16, 2018 I am 5’8” and my goal is 175. My goal is specifically this because I heard everywhere that after you reach goal you gain back 20 and that is where you settle. I heard this on various forums and from a few people that have had surgery. So ultimately I see myself maintaining 190-195 for life. That is my hope. 2 Orchids&Dragons and GreenTealael reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GreenTealael 25,439 Posted May 16, 2018 Everyone seems to have really realistic goalsI wonder about that rebound 20 lbs the last poster mentioned ... Should we then shoot for a very low number to land where we should have naturally fallen? Does that make sense? Is that even possible? I have NEVER given thought to low / goal weight until recently because you know wasn't even a reality, I was simply trying to get healthy but I'm beginning to realize there may be a lot more to this I need to consider. Anyone else panicking lol?HW 270 SW 238 CW 176 VSG 11/7 2 Orchids&Dragons and FluffyChix reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FluffyChix 17,415 Posted May 16, 2018 59 minutes ago, Tealael said: Everyone seems to have really realistic goals I wonder about that rebound 20 lbs the last poster mentioned ... Should we then shoot for a very low number to land where we should have naturally fallen? Does that make sense? Is that even possible? I have NEVER given thought to low / goal weight until recently because you know wasn't even a reality, I was simply trying to get healthy but I'm beginning to realize there may be a lot more to this I need to consider. Anyone else panicking lol? HW 270 SW 238 CW 176 VSG 11/7 Ideally, that is my plan... 1 GreenTealael reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TakingABreak 2,733 Posted May 16, 2018 This is such a hard one. I don't know how much more I'll need to loose to feel like I've succeeded. My surgeon and I set a goal of 180lbs, which is high for my height, but I don't know if this will be low enough in the end. Ultimately if I get to under 200lbs, which is 132lbs loss... I'll feel like a winner. I may not look the way I want to, but my health will have improved immensely. 4 GreenTealael, Orchids&Dragons, okayestmom and 1 other reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GreenTealael 25,439 Posted May 16, 2018 Ideally, that is my plan...So are you shooting for 120 in hopes of bouncing up to 145 or 145 in hopes of bouncing up to 160?HW270 SW238 CW176 VSG11/7/17[emoji956][emoji956][emoji956][emoji956][emoji956][emoji956][emoji956][emoji956][emoji956][emoji956][emoji956][emoji956] Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FluffyChix 17,415 Posted May 16, 2018 (edited) 25 minutes ago, Tealael said: So are you shooting for 120 in hopes of bouncing up to 145 or 145 in hopes of bouncing up to 160? HW270 SW238 CW176 VSG11/7/17 [emoji956][emoji956][emoji956][emoji956][emoji956][emoji956][emoji956][emoji956][emoji956][emoji956][emoji956][emoji956] I'm actually hoping/planning on 125lb, figuring a 10-15lb bump up that I might not be able to keep from happening--or maybe I will have control over it--I don't honestly know. I talked to my oncologist at my 6 month check-up today. He wants every last smidge off and for me to maintain without regain. So he would happily see me at 125lbs. I do not have a large frame, it's small to medium and I'm closer to 5'3" than 5'4" now that I'm shrinky-dinking. My range is about 108-145lbs as normal range. And he wants me in "normal" range cuz of the BC. So being at 120-125lbs puts me smack in the middle of normal. He doesn't know whether that is doable for me--or realistic. He just encouraged me to continue to follow my doc's plan and to keep up the re-conditioning and walking and then later lifting weights and strength training. He terms what I'm in as super-menopause. Cuz I take a cancer drug that is a hormone blocker (aromatase inhibitor) and it amplifies the menopause because as I lose my max fat, then I shut down as much hormone as possible in my body. Edited May 16, 2018 by FluffyChix 5 Sleeved36, Orchids&Dragons, Apple203 and 2 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Apple203 1,314 Posted May 16, 2018 My goal is to get my waist to less than half of my height, or 32 inches. My body is apple-shaped (hence my name), and this is the most dangerous shape for heart health. At 188 pounds, its 42, yes 42!I may needa Tummy Tuck to get there, the kind where the muscles are stitched together. 4 GreenTealael, jess9395, TakingABreak and 1 other reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites