Savagegirl 97 Posted May 10, 2018 Well yesterday was my one-year anniversary since bypass surgery. Like everyone, we all have a unique journey. I have lost about 159 pounds and went from a size 22 to a size 8 or 10. Here is my journey, which includes ulcers, cancer, kidney stones, malnutrition-induced neuropathy, and stenosis. Fun, huh? I'm really happy with my results, but I have a LONG way to go to get healthy. My journey and situation is NOT typical, so for those of you considering surgery, please just know this is one story out of many, but you won't face this same situation. Surgery - May 8, 2017. Successful! 10 days later - blood in stool. Had a large ulcer (not uncommon) and spent 4 more nights in hospital. All good. Never felt I could eat much as the weeks and months progressed, but didn't throw up and no pain either. Just couldn't eat more than a small amount before feeling extremely full. Also could not tolerate chicken, scrambled eggs, and other denser foods. September 22, 2017 - Diagnosed with metastatic breast cancer. 2cm tumor. Started chemo in October and finished 6 rounds in February. I'm HER2+ so I am continuing with infusions every three weeks (which are not chemo) until October 2018. Chemo affected my appetite and taste. I had no nausea. I already was not eating much and had lost so much weight so fast. Having no desire to eat didn't help. I am SICK of sweet Protein Shakes, pudding, Jello , Soups, cottage cheese, etc. However, I worked fulltime and kept my sprits up and never felt sorry for myself. I am cancer free (none found in any lymph nodes or in the tissue removed), so I feel very happy that I found the lump when I did and can move on. I do have a genetic mutation that was found, so I opted for a double mastectomy, which was performed on March 13, 2018. After losing over 150 pounds, my former 44 DD breasts were very low and flat, so I needed a lift anyway. Now I have them where they should be! Ha. Surgery went well and I'm recovering still. Met with my gastric surgeon two weeks ago and they want me to continue getting B12 shots once a month to help with the neuropathy in my feet brought on by Vitamin deficiency. I am also supposed to up my Protein to try and reach 80 grams per day, which is very tough for me. Tomorrow I am getting my second endoscopic dilation so I can eat more. Dr said it's from inflammation and between 6-20% of patients have to get that done at least once. I had it done in February, but need one now again as I still can barely eat 1/4 of food (more of Soup or softer food). SOOO looking forward to being able to eat a variety of foods soon. It gets frustrating to have such limited choices. I will start physical therapy because my muscles have atrophied a bit, but need to wait a bit until I recover from my double mastectomy. I didn't ever think I would need that after gastric bypass. My biggest fear was that I would not get to my goal weight of 170 (here I am at 150). Before and after photos attached. After shots are with a wig as I only have 1/4 inch of hair at the moment! 10 okayestmom, baribetty, FluffyChix and 7 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chrisb428 626 Posted May 10, 2018 You are beautiful, amazing and a true inspiration! I hope all of the bad is behind you and you can enjoy your hot new figure...lol 1 Savagegirl reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bryn910 519 Posted May 10, 2018 Wow, you look amazing! And your spirit is just unbelievable!! I love it. Keep going strong, I just know you will get healthier as time goes on. You got this!! Thanks for sharing as well 1 Savagegirl reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Apple203 1,314 Posted May 10, 2018 (edited) Getting hit with cancer on the heels of this surgery was a blow but I greatly admire your pragmatic, can-do attitude. Hope the dilation helps with food volume and diversity!! I didnt realize that this was so commonly needed. ETA: Nice new boobs, btw! I remember reading (and laughing) when someone described hers after weight loss as tennis balls hanging from tube socks, and now this is becoming me!! Edited May 10, 2018 by Apple203 2 Sosewsue61 and Savagegirl reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frustr8 7,886 Posted May 10, 2018 On 05/10/2018 at 2:53 AM ,Savagegirl said: Well yesterday was my one-year anniversary since bypass surgery. Like everyone, we all have a unique journey. I have lost about 159 pounds and went from a size 22 to a size 8 or 10. Here is my journey, which includes ulcers, cancer, kidney stones, malnutrition-induced neuropathy, and stenosis. Fun, huh? I'm really happy with my results, but I have a LONG way to go to get healthy. My journey and situation is NOT typical, so for those of you considering surgery, please just know this is one story out of many, but you won't face this same situation. Surgery - May 8, 2017. Successful! 10 days later - blood in stool. Had a large ulcer (not uncommon) and spent 4 more nights in hospital. All good. Never felt I could eat much as the weeks and months progressed, but didn't throw up and no pain either. Just couldn't eat more than a small amount before feeling extremely full. Also could not tolerate chicken, scrambled eggs, and other denser foods. September 22, 2017 - Diagnosed with metastatic breast cancer. 2cm tumor. Started chemo in October and finished 6 rounds in February. I'm HER2+ so I am continuing with infusions every three weeks (which are not chemo) until October 2018. Chemo affected my appetite and taste. I had no nausea. I already was not eating much and had lost so much weight so fast. Having no desire to eat didn't help. I am SICK of sweet Protein Shakes, pudding, Jello , Soups, cottage cheese, etc. However, I worked fulltime and kept my sprits up and never felt sorry for myself. I am cancer free (none found in any lymph nodes or in the tissue removed), so I feel very happy that I found the lump when I did and can move on. I do have a genetic mutation that was found, so I opted for a double mastectomy, which was performed on March 13, 2018. After losing over 150 pounds, my former 44 DD breasts were very low and flat, so I needed a lift anyway. Now I have them where they should be! Ha. Surgery went well and I'm recovering still. Met with my gastric surgeon two weeks ago and they want me to continue getting B12 shots once a month to help with the neuropathy in my feet brought on by Vitamin deficiency. I am also supposed to up my Protein to try and reach 80 grams per day, which is very tough for me. Tomorrow I am getting my second endoscopic dilation so I can eat more. Dr said it's from inflammation and between 6-20% of patients have to get that done at least once. I had it done in February, but need one now again as I still can barely eat 1/4 of food (more of Soup or softer food). SOOO looking forward to being able to eat a variety of foods soon. It gets frustrating to have such limited choices. I will start physical therapy because my muscles have atrophied a bit, but need to wait a bit until I recover from my double mastectomy. I didn't ever think I would need that after gastric bypass. My biggest fear was that I would not get to my goal weight of 170 (here I am at 150). Before and after photos attached. After shots are with a wig as I only have 1/4 inch of hair at the moment! What a story and there are still chapters to be written. You are brave courageous and I am honored you shared and are sharing your story with us. Keep us updated and. please remember we are surrounding you with our love and prayers. We are virtually walkingbwithbyou every👣of the way. 2 watsongirl17 and Savagegirl reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sosewsue61 3,185 Posted May 10, 2018 Amazing courage, and amazing stamina. You look marvelous lady! Bless you and I wish you continued health goals. 1 Savagegirl reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FluffyChix 17,415 Posted May 10, 2018 Wow! Congratulations lady on your new life...in more ways than one! ((hugs)). As others have commented, your courage and attitude is very inspiring and offers hope and motivation to us all. Keep on kickin' it! You look totes lovely!!! And you're beautiful hair will grow back--curly! Get ready! 1 Savagegirl reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GreenTealael 25,430 Posted May 10, 2018 That's right mama Fight like a girl [emoji1490][emoji1490][emoji1490][emoji1490]HW 270SW 238CW 188VSG 11/7[emoji471][emoji471][emoji471] 1 Savagegirl reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Road Runner 66 Posted May 10, 2018 You look fabulous, and your attitude and courage is inspiring !! Congratulations and best wishes for the next chapter of your life! 1 Savagegirl reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TakingABreak 2,733 Posted May 10, 2018 Such an amazing story! Thank you for sharing. Congrats! 1 Savagegirl reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
YoBL 80 Posted May 10, 2018 Wow! Bless you! Your are truly an inspiration to me. You look awesome! 1 Savagegirl reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Savagegirl 97 Posted May 11, 2018 You are beautiful, amazing and a true inspiration! I hope all of the bad is behind you and you can enjoy your hot new figure...lolThank you! Hope to be a hot mom soon, lol 2 Frustr8 and Chrisb428 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Savagegirl 97 Posted May 11, 2018 Wow! Bless you! Your are truly an inspiration to me. You look awesome! Thank you so much! I hope to be an inspiration but I’m also always inspired by everyone here too. 1 Savagegirl reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Savagegirl 97 Posted May 11, 2018 Such an amazing story! Thank you for sharing. Congrats!Aww thank you Ash! 1 TakingABreak reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Savagegirl 97 Posted May 11, 2018 You look fabulous, and your attitude and courage is inspiring !! Congratulations and best wishes for the next chapter of your life! Thank you and I’m cheering you on, too. Love to see everyone’s journey and to finally share my own. 2 TakingABreak and Savagegirl reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites