I hate it when people post just to post.....

[Fanny Adams 7]

Who else has shrinking boobs I went from a big D to small C

Wtf? I love my boobs they better not shrink anymore.

I've lost over 10" off my chest and gone from spilling out of an F cup to barely filling it :cursing:. Most of what fills the cups now is just loose skin too - there's probably not enough boob tissue there to make a decent D cup. When I lie on my back, they wrinkle up and look horrible. I used to love my boobs, even when I was at my fattest - I hate them now and can't wait for the boob job I'm planning for when I get to goal .

[plain 12]

Non poisonous snakes are fine in my book.

....but even non-venomous snake can pack a painful bite!! Let's just avoid them altogether (or maybe Fanny could call in St. Patrick).

Nice to "see" everyone again - I missed y'all!

Did y'all hear that? Somebody missed me!! W00t

Under the right circumstances, I've found that most men will do just about anything...

Well....absolutely.

... it was the underwire (which I think is plastic) in my bra. :cursing:

Yeah, the same thing kinda happened to me....that's why I have to wear "real man" brand underwear (with the reinforced crotch). It's just not fair to ask regular underwear fabric to do all that heavy lifting.

BTW, you're complaining about having too much boobage? Really? I tried to google it, but according to the internet, there is no such a problem.

Football absolutely bores me to tears!

For the sake of the friendship, I'm just gonna forget you said that......

I love my boobs they better not shrink anymore.

Clearly, the federal government needs to spend more research dollars on this problem. The "shrinking boobs" issue makes the current recession look like "the good ol' days". Think about the kids, people. They're our future.

[Donna113 2]

Fanny, there are no words we can say here to make you feel better BUT, it sounds like he said all the right things and answered you truthfully. He's with you because he thinks you are wonderful and he loves being with you. He's admitting he's attracted to you the way you are and admiring you for working on getting even sexier than you are now. Don't compare yourself to his exes unless you think being an ex is something to strive for...Obviously, their slim bodies were not enough to keep the relationship going. I've found that the way I feel about someone affects how attractive I think that person is. Initial attraction often is a result of pure physical chemistry but over time as you get to know someone your perception of the other person's appearance changes based on how you feel about them. He found you attractive enough initially to get with you and now he's discovered your inner beauty as well, he's hooked. You've got to get over being self conscious about your body around him because if you don't it will affect your intimacy. You were attractive to him when you first met and you are even more attractive to him now. If you let your insecurity get in the way, it will get between you two so beat that ugly monster away! That's an order!

[smsmithart 4]

Well I have plenty of breast tissue they are still very full but I want to drop a few more lbs and I'm scared they will be small Bs when I'm done ...the horror..

[Donna113 2]

Well I have plenty of breast tissue they are still very full but I want to drop a few more lbs and I'm scared they will be small Bs when I'm done ...the horror..

That's what plastic surgeons are for. Don't get worked up about something that hasn't happened, keep positive and know that if worst comes to worst, there's alwayd good old silicone!

[smsmithart 4]

Yeah fanny listen to donna and just have a good time..don't stress

[plain 12]

He is 5'8" and I am 5'3", which I thought was a pretty good match, however, all of his previous girlfriends/partners have been tiny slim women, he considers me tall!

Heehee....tall?!? Know what we call 5'8" and 5'3" here in Texas? Preteens. I'm kidding! I kid because I love....

Foolishly, I was fishing for compliments last weekend and asked him flat out "Do you think I'm pretty?" erk... I should have known that I would get a totally honest answer... I got the dreaded "You have a very pretty face". Now as fatties, we all know what that means, don't we? What's more, it was followed up a while later with comments along the lines of "I'm really coming to realise that I've focussed way too much on the physical in the past and that what is really important to me is someone's mind, spirit, loving heart, that we are so compatible, etc, etc.." Double erk... Jeez, why didn't he just say "you have a great personality", which we all know is also code for "you're a big fatty". :cursing:

Ok, seriously, I'm going to give you a bit of the male perspective, and I don't want you to take this the wrong way, but I think you may be over-reacting a little. He has already complimented your physical appearance numerous times. If the sex is mind-blowing (er, no pun intended), then he clearly finds the rest of your body desirable as well. If he didn't like all of you, there wouldn't be a relationship (it would have been a drunken one night stand). Trust me on this. Maybe he flubbed the face compliment, but hey......dudes are not generally well known for their eloquent declarations. I know it's difficult to drop the baggage of the past, but you are simply not that person anymore. Heck, the camera will tell you that! You're hot! Accept it.

Now, go find your new beau and you two go have some more small person sex, LOL.

[Fanny Adams 7]

The stupid thing is that I wasn't stressing before I was dumb enough to put the question out in the open. I knew he was into slim women but figured he was obviously into me enough to find me attractive. It's just that now that I know for sure that the attraction is for everything EXCEPT the physical look, I've gone all paranoid. Damnit, inner beauty is all very well but screw Women's Lib, I wanna be a sex toy!! *wails*

[ColoradoChick 33]

Who else has shrinking boobs I went from a big D to small C

Wtf? I love my boobs they better not shrink anymore.

Mine are shrinking too! I have this fear of losing the weight and ending up flat chested! That is exactly how my luck goes! I already told my husband to start saving for the boob job! :smile2:

[plain 12]

The stupid thing is that I wasn't stressing before I was dumb enough to put the question out in the open. I knew he was into slim women but figured he was obviously into me enough to find me attractive. It's just that now that I know for sure that the attraction is for everything EXCEPT the physical look, I've gone all paranoid. Damnit, inner beauty is all very well but screw Women's Lib, I wanna be a sex toy!! *wails*

See my post above :smile2:

[Donna113 2]

I wanna be a sex toy!! *wails*

News flash - all women are sex toys to men!

[Donna113 2]

I've been summoned! I hate jury duty! You show up, you get shuffled around like cattle, then you get penned in to a "waiting room" where you wait for hours just to be sent home.

At least that's how it went last time -- You'd think in a county as big as Harris County, they'd only need to pick on you once. I had to go 2 years ago and you get a 2 year moratorium before you go back into the lottery -- I guess I'm just lucky so long as there isn't any money to be won! Argh!

[plain 12]

I've been summoned! I hate jury duty! You show up, you get shuffled around like cattle, then you get penned in to a "waiting room" where you wait for hours just to be sent home.

At least that's how it went last time -- You'd think in a county as big as Harris County, they'd only need to pick on you once. I had to go 2 years ago and you get a 2 year moratorium before you go back into the lottery -- I guess I'm just lucky so long as there isn't any money to be won! Argh!

Oh my! Jury duty truly truly sucks......and I live in an extremely small county. I can't imagine jury duty in Houston.

My last go around, the potential case was for a DWI (repeat) who refused to perform the breathalyzer. His bigshot (because she was from the big city of Texarkana, LOL) lawyer asked by a show of hands of people that could convict without concrete evidence of intoxication (ie, the breathalyzer). I raised my hand and she asked me if I believed the machine was always right. I responded that I believed the machine generally functioned correctly. She asked why I had so much faith in the technology, and I said I worked in a hospital around technology and believed that relatively simple machines are easy to maintain and calibrate. So then she asks if I know how a breathalyzer works....and I tell her and the judge and God that I don't know the specifics, but I believe it has something to do with science, and is not the result of devil's magic. She didn't ask me anymore questions and, shockingly enough, I was not picked to be on the jury.

[ColoradoChick 33]

So then she asks if I know how a breathalyzer works....and I tell her and the judge and God that I don't know the specifics, but I believe it has something to do with science, and is not the result of devil's magic. She didn't ask me anymore questions and, shockingly enough, I was not picked to be on the jury.

:smile2: I think those new fangled contraptions are the devils magic!! :wink2:

[Donna113 2]

Oh my! Jury duty truly truly sucks......and I live in an extremely small county. I can't imagine jury duty in Houston.

My last go around, the potential case was for a DWI (repeat) who refused to perform the breathalyzer. His bigshot (because she was from the big city of Texarkana, LOL) lawyer asked by a show of hands of people that could convict without concrete evidence of intoxication (ie, the breathalyzer). I raised my hand and she asked me if I believed the machine was always right. I responded that I believed the machine generally functioned correctly. She asked why I had so much faith in the technology, and I said I worked in a hospital around technology and believed that relatively simple machines are easy to maintain and calibrate. So then she asks if I know how a breathalyzer works....and I tell her and the judge and God that I don't know the specifics, but I believe it has something to do with science, and is not the result of devil's magic. She didn't ask me anymore questions and, shockingly enough, I was not picked to be on the jury.

So, do you think if I answer the same way as you did, especially if it's a murder case, they'll let me go home? :smile2: