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Three month ago, I decided to radically change my life and started on this weight loss journey.

What i realized is that even more important to the 52 lbs and 33 inches I have lost is all that I have gained.

I gained health. I am no longer an insulin dependent diabetic. In fact, I’m not a diabetic at all. I have a normal blood pressure without any pills, my cholesterol is “stellar “ according to my doctor who was ready to put my on meds for that too. I no longer need anti anxiety meds or sleeping meds.

I gained energy. Lots of it. I used to come home after work and sit staring at the tv all night until 8, when Elijah would go to bed, so I could too.

I gained confidence. I realize my own worth. And my own value. I realize that getting my hair and nails professionally done is something I CAN treat myself with, instead of food.

I gained self control. I just spent a week visiting NH where all of my favorite foods were at my fingertips. I tried one bite of two different Desserts, then realized they were not as important to me as the company I was with. I enjoyed wonderful conversations with those at my table, and the food meant almost nothing.

I gained an appreciation for those in my tribe. Those who support me, love me and are honest with me, even when things are hard to hear. I no longer feel the need to be defensive, for I know they are not out to hurt me, but help me.

I found me. And I’m happy.IMG_4638.JPG

Carla from LV

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21 minutes ago, carlab said:

Three month ago, I decided to radically change my life and started on this weight loss journey.

What i realized is that even more important to the 52 lbs and 33 inches I have lost is all that I have gained.

I gained health. I am no longer an insulin dependent diabetic. In fact, I’m not a diabetic at all. I have a normal blood pressure without any pills, my cholesterol is “stellar “ according to my doctor who was ready to put my on meds for that too. I no longer need anti anxiety meds or sleeping meds.

I gained energy. Lots of it. I used to come home after work and sit staring at the tv all night until 8, when Elijah would go to bed, so I could too.

I gained confidence. I realize my own worth. And my own value. I realize that getting my hair and nails professionally done is something I CAN treat myself with, instead of food.

I gained self control. I just spent a week visiting NH where all of my favorite foods were at my fingertips. I tried one bite of two different Desserts, then realized they were not as important to me as the company I was with. I enjoyed wonderful conversations with those at my table, and the food meant almost nothing.

I gained an appreciation for those in my tribe. Those who support me, love me and are honest with me, even when things are hard to hear. I no longer feel the need to be defensive, for I know they are not out to hurt me, but help me.

I found me. And I’m happy.IMG_4638.JPG

Carla from LV

Yo Go Girl!!!! Congrats! It's definitely a life changer. I smile and appreciate mine everyday. I'm almost 4 months post op. We have a second chance at living the life we've always wanted. Congrats again!

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Thank you for sharing your inspirational story! You look amazing!

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Carlab -another strawberry blonde chick- imagine your before at 72, you've got a ball park idea of what I look like now. But you give me hope, yes you do and perhaps I can rock a 70s version of you, makes me want to keep on keeping on. Thank you for the pictures![emoji106][emoji14]

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Awesome! You must feel amazing.

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You look fabulous! Keep it going, it will only get better !

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5 hours ago, carlab said:

Three month ago, I decided to radically change my life and started on this weight loss journey.

What i realized is that even more important to the 52 lbs and 33 inches I have lost is all that I have gained.

I gained health. I am no longer an insulin dependent diabetic. In fact, I’m not a diabetic at all. I have a normal blood pressure without any pills, my cholesterol is “stellar “ according to my doctor who was ready to put my on meds for that too. I no longer need anti anxiety meds or sleeping meds.

I gained energy. Lots of it. I used to come home after work and sit staring at the tv all night until 8, when Elijah would go to bed, so I could too.

I gained confidence. I realize my own worth. And my own value. I realize that getting my hair and nails professionally done is something I CAN treat myself with, instead of food.

I gained self control. I just spent a week visiting NH where all of my favorite foods were at my fingertips. I tried one bite of two different Desserts, then realized they were not as important to me as the company I was with. I enjoyed wonderful conversations with those at my table, and the food meant almost nothing.

I gained an appreciation for those in my tribe. Those who support me, love me and are honest with me, even when things are hard to hear. I no longer feel the need to be defensive, for I know they are not out to hurt me, but help me.

I found me. And I’m happy.IMG_4638.JPG

Carla from LV

Wow - you look amazing! I Celebrate my 3 month next week too. Well done you :)

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you look amazing!!!

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Thanks for sharing! I'm only one month out but already can see and feel the differences. I can't wait for each month to pass. But I am being patient. This is for the rest of my life, not a quick fix.

Congratulations on your success! Hope you continue to check in as we walk this road behind you!

Roxine

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