carlab 63 Posted April 9, 2018 Three month ago, I decided to radically change my life and started on this weight loss journey. What i realized is that even more important to the 52 lbs and 33 inches I have lost is all that I have gained. I gained health. I am no longer an insulin dependent diabetic. In fact, I’m not a diabetic at all. I have a normal blood pressure without any pills, my cholesterol is “stellar “ according to my doctor who was ready to put my on meds for that too. I no longer need anti anxiety meds or sleeping meds. I gained energy. Lots of it. I used to come home after work and sit staring at the tv all night until 8, when Elijah would go to bed, so I could too. I gained confidence. I realize my own worth. And my own value. I realize that getting my hair and nails professionally done is something I CAN treat myself with, instead of food. I gained self control. I just spent a week visiting NH where all of my favorite foods were at my fingertips. I tried one bite of two different Desserts, then realized they were not as important to me as the company I was with. I enjoyed wonderful conversations with those at my table, and the food meant almost nothing. I gained an appreciation for those in my tribe. Those who support me, love me and are honest with me, even when things are hard to hear. I no longer feel the need to be defensive, for I know they are not out to hurt me, but help me. I found me. And I’m happy. Carla from LV 6 FluffyChix, Orchids&Dragons, Aworknprogress and 3 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SampTheChamp 234 Posted April 9, 2018 21 minutes ago, carlab said: Three month ago, I decided to radically change my life and started on this weight loss journey. What i realized is that even more important to the 52 lbs and 33 inches I have lost is all that I have gained. I gained health. I am no longer an insulin dependent diabetic. In fact, I’m not a diabetic at all. I have a normal blood pressure without any pills, my cholesterol is “stellar “ according to my doctor who was ready to put my on meds for that too. I no longer need anti anxiety meds or sleeping meds. I gained energy. Lots of it. I used to come home after work and sit staring at the tv all night until 8, when Elijah would go to bed, so I could too. I gained confidence. I realize my own worth. And my own value. I realize that getting my hair and nails professionally done is something I CAN treat myself with, instead of food. I gained self control. I just spent a week visiting NH where all of my favorite foods were at my fingertips. I tried one bite of two different Desserts, then realized they were not as important to me as the company I was with. I enjoyed wonderful conversations with those at my table, and the food meant almost nothing. I gained an appreciation for those in my tribe. Those who support me, love me and are honest with me, even when things are hard to hear. I no longer feel the need to be defensive, for I know they are not out to hurt me, but help me. I found me. And I’m happy. Carla from LV Yo Go Girl!!!! Congrats! It's definitely a life changer. I smile and appreciate mine everyday. I'm almost 4 months post op. We have a second chance at living the life we've always wanted. Congrats again! 1 FluffyChix reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Orchids&Dragons 9,047 Posted April 9, 2018 Thank you for sharing your inspirational story! You look amazing! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
frust8 963 Posted April 9, 2018 Carlab -another strawberry blonde chick- imagine your before at 72, you've got a ball park idea of what I look like now. But you give me hope, yes you do and perhaps I can rock a 70s version of you, makes me want to keep on keeping on. Thank you for the pictures![emoji106][emoji14]Sent from my VS880PP using BariatricPal mobile app 1 Biddy zz 🏳️🌈 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CrazieConnie 27 Posted April 9, 2018 Great job! So happy for you... Can't wait till I'm on the other side and am losing and having lots of energy as well.... Keep up the great work! 1 SampTheChamp reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
browneyez42 280 Posted April 9, 2018 Awesome! You must feel amazing.Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-G920A using BariatricPal mobile app Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dshell 33 Posted April 9, 2018 You look fabulous! Keep it going, it will only get better ! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Fefe31 0 Posted April 9, 2018 You look amazingSent from my SM-G930V using BariatricPal mobile app Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bluegirl216 48 Posted April 9, 2018 5 hours ago, carlab said: Three month ago, I decided to radically change my life and started on this weight loss journey. What i realized is that even more important to the 52 lbs and 33 inches I have lost is all that I have gained. I gained health. I am no longer an insulin dependent diabetic. In fact, I’m not a diabetic at all. I have a normal blood pressure without any pills, my cholesterol is “stellar “ according to my doctor who was ready to put my on meds for that too. I no longer need anti anxiety meds or sleeping meds. I gained energy. Lots of it. I used to come home after work and sit staring at the tv all night until 8, when Elijah would go to bed, so I could too. I gained confidence. I realize my own worth. And my own value. I realize that getting my hair and nails professionally done is something I CAN treat myself with, instead of food. I gained self control. I just spent a week visiting NH where all of my favorite foods were at my fingertips. I tried one bite of two different Desserts, then realized they were not as important to me as the company I was with. I enjoyed wonderful conversations with those at my table, and the food meant almost nothing. I gained an appreciation for those in my tribe. Those who support me, love me and are honest with me, even when things are hard to hear. I no longer feel the need to be defensive, for I know they are not out to hurt me, but help me. I found me. And I’m happy. Carla from LV Wow - you look amazing! I Celebrate my 3 month next week too. Well done you 1 SWEET SONG reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
angyplus5 470 Posted April 10, 2018 you look amazing!!! Sent from my SM-G930VL using BariatricPal mobile app Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Roxine 211 Posted April 10, 2018 Thanks for sharing! I'm only one month out but already can see and feel the differences. I can't wait for each month to pass. But I am being patient. This is for the rest of my life, not a quick fix. Congratulations on your success! Hope you continue to check in as we walk this road behind you! Roxine Share this post Link to post Share on other sites