My man said I cheated

[FluffyChix 17,415]

Yeah, so. As @Sosewsue61 said and @Creekimp13 said, don't go to the dry well. Don't go to him for support. Don't ask him if those jeans make your ass look big.

Here's the translation for him: Dude, I don't wanna hear it. Bottom line? I'm sexy and hot and you get the benefit of my new hot bod with all kinds of crazy great sex. If you don't like it, you can be replaced in 10 minutes.

In this case, the destination is all that is important as far as he's concerned--the how and why of the journey is irrelevant and he does not possess the "need to know" security clearance.

Easy my left fanny. His opinion of your actions should NOT determine your reality.

Edited March 23, 2018 by FluffyChix

[The Dora Milaje 69]

18 hours ago, Missytee said:

It’s my boyfriend

Ok well dump him. Don't even waste the energy trying to make him understand why you made the decision you did. Life is too short.

[The Dora Milaje 69]

18 hours ago, Missytee said:

It’s my boyfriend

Ok well dump him. Don't even waste the energy trying to make him understand why you made the decision you did. Life is too short.

[The Dora Milaje 69]

18 hours ago, Missytee said:

It’s my boyfriend

Ok well dump him. Don't even waste the energy trying to make him understand why you made the decision you did. Life is too short.

[The Dora Milaje 69]

18 hours ago, Missytee said:

It’s my boyfriend

Ok well dump him. Don't even waste the energy trying to make him understand why you made the decision you did. Life is too short.

[The Dora Milaje 69]

Sorry for the dupes

[newmebithebypass 713]

Oh hon fuuuuck that I'd hit the nope train all the way to Beyonce's irreplaceable in 2 seconds

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[XYZXYZXYZ1955 675]

Let's see, your life/health is at stake--you could have this surgery, or you could try the other way, the one that fails about 95 percent of the time. What would he say if it were HIS health at stake?

Keeping him or dumping him is totally your choice--just like what you do with your body is.

[illailla 79]

People are weird. They want you to loose weight but they don't want you to "cheat" at it.

If the end results are the same who cares if you pulled them out of a cracker jack box?

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[Missytee 138]

People are weird. They want you to loose weight but they don't want you to "cheat" at it.

If the end results are the same who cares if you pulled them out of a cracker jack box?

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Exactly

[Missytee 138]

Thanks for all the advice....no matter what you guys are supportive and I know I can come here to vent..thanks

[Sleeved36 356]

You don't have to break up with him over this, there is great possibility that he has excessive jealousy or insecurity that makes him act this way. DO NOT attack him for being in secure. At least talk about the real issue b4 you throw this relationship away. I am a feminist too, but Damn it a good man is hard to find. You do what you you need to.

[illailla 79]

No time for explanations!! Find you a new man that you don’t have to explain yourself to! There are millions of fish in the sea. 🤷🏾‍♂️

Are you serious? That's ridiculous. That is not a reason to throw a relationship away. Lol. Fool.

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[illailla 79]

Lmao I just read all the comments and people are really in here telling this woman to throw away her whole relationship for something like this?

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[illailla 79]

Are you serious? That's ridiculous. That is not a reason to throw a relationship away.

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