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Ok y'all I'm sorry if this is a blunt topic and I know everyone is different but my question is...what does it feel like when you're having sex after being sleeved? Does it hurt your stomach having your partner adding his weight on top of you?

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Ok y'all I'm sorry if this is a blunt topic and I know everyone is different but my question is...what does it feel like when you're having sex after being sleeved? Does it hurt your stomach having your partner adding his weight on top of you?
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Too soon after it will
But luckily there are plenty of other positions to try ...


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Ok y'all I'm sorry if this is a blunt topic and I know everyone is different but my question is...what does it feel like when you're having sex after being sleeved? Does it hurt your stomach having your partner adding his weight on top of you?
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No need to have him on top of you full force ;) haha if you catch my drift. I’ve had no issues, but we do take care and choose positions wisely. Otherwise, go forth and enjoy!!!


HW: 213lb (97kg)
SW: 200lb (91kg)
CW: 176lb (80kg)
GW: 120lb (55kg)
Height: 5’2 (153cm)

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I waited 6 weeks after surgery before I decided to have sex. Please note that at the time, I did not live with my boyfriend and he was going through midterms and working full time so I barely got to see him. It would be about once a month. So I got more than enough time to heal and relax. However, my surgeon suggested that it was okay about 4 weeks out but to not put too much pressure on your stomach and incisions.

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I waited 6 weeks after surgery before I decided to have sex. Please note that at the time, I did not live with my boyfriend and he was going through midterms and working full time so I barely got to see him. It would be about once a month. So I got more than enough time to heal and relax. However, my surgeon suggested that it was okay about 4 weeks out but to not put too much pressure on your stomach and incisions.

Thank you so much, that's what o wanted to know! [emoji2]

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Ok y'all I'm sorry if this is a blunt topic and I know everyone is different but my question is...what does it feel like when you're having sex after being sleeved? Does it hurt your stomach having your partner adding his weight on top of you?
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I had sex like 4-5 days after my sleeve and I was just fine


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38 minutes ago, ready4change88 said:


I had sex like 4-5 days after my sleeve and I was just fine

Same here!

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2 weeks post sleeve and I was swinging from the chandelier with no pain. His weight on top of me didn't hurt the operation scars and both of us thrashing around like enthusiastic crazy people didn't do any damage either. Stop if it hurts, but go for it otherwise. :)

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Have only had it once and I was on top so nothing hurt. My SO is a foot taller than me and a beefy guy so no matter what size I am he is smushing me if he puts his full weight on me so he doesn't do it.

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