JustinH 41 Posted February 28, 2018 Does anyone regret having this surgery? Be honest, if so and why? Just want to know what others are going through before I commit. 1 ProudGrammy reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
linda8 51 Posted February 28, 2018 2 minutes ago, JustinH said: Does anyone regret having this surgery? Be honest, if so and why? Just want to know what others are going through before I commit. I am one month and 2 days post op. I have zero regrets. I feel perfectly normal except that I get full sooner. Its a miracle. no pain no side effects. I have lost 32 pounds and am not hungry. 8 dnoreeka, DKG_WLJ, Ready123Go and 5 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
orionburn 1,024 Posted February 28, 2018 No regrets, but there are certainly times when it can be annoying with changes. I have a beer every once in a great while but it's kind of all or nothing. Gone are the days of being able to even eat 6 wings and a drink a small glass of beer with the guys at B-dubs. Now it's half a glass and maybe 2 wings and that's it. I mean it's not the end of the world, and the pros have definitely outweighed the cons. My only other real cons are the annoying loose skin. I'm older now, was overweight for a long time, and pretty much knew I was boned when it came to that. Oh well...there are worse tragedies in life but it's annoying. 4 unoarellano, FluffyChix, ready4change88 and 1 other reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
doug548 35 Posted February 28, 2018 The only regret I have is that I did not get this done sooner. I feel better than I have in a long time. 6 Sosewsue61, ProudGrammy, FluffyChix and 3 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
linda8 51 Posted February 28, 2018 20 minutes ago, doug548 said: The only regret I have is that I did not get this done sooner. I feel better than I have in a long time. I second that! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
linda8 51 Posted February 28, 2018 20 minutes ago, doug548 said: The only regret I have is that I did not get this done sooner. I feel better than I have in a long time. I second that! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Healthy_life2 8,324 Posted February 28, 2018 1 hour ago, JustinH said: Does anyone regret having this surgery? Be honest, if so and why? Just want to know what others are going through before I commit. I regret being obese. I was miserable. physical activity was a struggle. My health was in decline. I missed out on activities and things in life due to my weight. I hated buying clothing in plus size stores. I'm almost four years out..... Absolutely no regrets having surgery. I have my health back. I'm in the best shape of my life. Eating healthy is still flavorful and just my normal life. Enjoying life, having adventures and making up for lost time. 6 ProudGrammy, xoxococojay, Wanda247 and 3 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
blizair09 3,250 Posted February 28, 2018 I have and never had any regrets. My life is fabulous and I wish I had done this long before I did. 2 Beachyfe and anonbaribabe reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Acts238girl 73 Posted February 28, 2018 I do sort of miss being able to chow down! Lol! I really think that's my mental hunger talking though, because even in the months before surgery I didn't eat that way. I have never eaten great big meals, but for some reason that's all I want to do right now. I'm only going into my third week after surgery though, so I'm still on liquids! I've been told it'll be easier when I can actually start eating food again! I am looking forward to just getting a bite or two of something and being done.Sent from my SM-G935V using BariatricPal mobile app 1 The Dora Milaje reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Losebig 508 Posted February 28, 2018 No regrets other than having to have it in the first place 3 Beachyfe, ProudGrammy and Catitude reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jess9395 5,449 Posted February 28, 2018 I’m sure many people do! But I’m four and a half years and no regrets! 3 BusyMom945, Beachyfe and ProudGrammy reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FluffyChix 17,415 Posted February 28, 2018 As a surgery noob, today is Day 8, I have "no regerts" other than as Doug said, not having it sooner. And as @jenn1 said...yeah, wish I hadn't eaten my way to super morbid obesity in the first place!! 4 ProudGrammy, Beachyfe, jess9395 and 1 other reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GreenTealael 25,430 Posted February 28, 2018 Nothing major Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sosewsue61 3,185 Posted February 28, 2018 This speculation on regrets is not serving you well - first of all if anyone had regrets it would serve no purpose as you cannot undo the surgery, second everyone's experience will vary so widely that again speculation only serves curiousity. So - if you are undecided this questioning will not be helpful to you. Statistics are in your favor that it is a safe surgery with only rare complications, and success is based on each person learning to live a sleeved life, and finding new ways to avoid emotional eating. Your reassurance must come from inside you. We want to cheer you on and applaud your successes, let you vent some frustrations, give tips on food stages but you need to work out your hesitations. 5 ProudGrammy, Wanda247, KCgirl061 and 2 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bold Northerner 3 Posted February 28, 2018 1 hour ago, Sosewsue61 said: This speculation on regrets is not serving you well - first of all if anyone had regrets it would serve no purpose as you cannot undo the surgery, second everyone's experience will vary so widely that again speculation only serves curiousity. So - if you are undecided this questioning will not be helpful to you. Statistics are in your favor that it is a safe surgery with only rare complications, and success is based on each person learning to live a sleeved life, and finding new ways to avoid emotional eating. Your reassurance must come from inside you. We want to cheer you on and applaud your successes, let you vent some frustrations, give tips on food stages but you need to work out your hesitations. Having major surgery is a scary thing. I get how OP would want to hear you all say you DON'T have any regrets. It's exciting when I hear that as I wait for insurance approval and think a lot about this process. 3 habee, Beachyfe and GreenTealael reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites