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20 hours ago, Strivingforbetter said:

Is that what's going on??!! It's been so painful for me for the past four months. Not a good change for me. Will this get better over time? I hope so.

It actually hurt for me at first but it has gotten way better. I thought my husband was getting bigger because I'd never heard any other women talk about it. Maybe we're just using those muscles more and not realizing it.

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11 hours ago, Sosewsue61 said:

@Charity G well they can do Lipo on the mons when they do the tummy tuck/LBL surgery. I plan on getting a separate vag rejuvenation from a surgeon that specializes in that - I have a herniated muscle on the posterior wall from some rough childbirth.... sometimes makes good ole missionary a little uncomfortable.

Sex is still great but my booty is now a flat textbook down the pants!!! Goes with the 'tennis balls in tube socks' titties!!! All going under the knife after stabilized goal weight - hopefully a year from now.

What does that herniated muscle feel like? I'm wondering if I have that. I delivered all of my children (4) via c-section, so they didn't travel through the birth canal, but something is seriously wrong.

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11 hours ago, Sosewsue61 said:

Sex is still great but my booty is now a flat textbook down the pants!!!

Yep, it’s like Spinal Tap sang, “the bigger the cushion, the sweeter the pushin’”

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The herniated muscle on the rear wall of the vagina - it is lax toward the rectum so it 'pushes' in that direction during some positions and is uncomfortable.

(Also, not to be gross with tmi, but with pooping it pushes toward the vaginal wall and causes some strain there, esp if any Constipation - which is def uncomfortable. So....this surgery is likely to be covered by insurance I'm hoping)

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6 minutes ago, Sosewsue61 said:

The herniated muscle on the rear wall of the vagina - it is lax toward the rectum so it 'pushes' in that direction during some positions and is uncomfortable.

(Also, not to be gross with tmi, but with pooping it pushes toward the vaginal wall and causes some strain there, esp if any Constipation - which is def uncomfortable. So....this surgery is likely to be covered by insurance I'm hoping)

Not tmi. It's good to help each other. It doesn't sound like my issue because I'm not experiencing that. Just very sharp pain.

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On 2/25/2018 at 3:41 PM, abefroman329 said:

No, everything down there got bigger. Oh...for the LADIES. My bad.

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I am so glad someone posted about this now. I had sex recently and I know I have had bigger but holy wow I was tight! I am only 3 weeks out. I do not understand but I am not unhappy about it one bit!! ;)

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