Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

Husband is jealous



Recommended Posts

I almost finished with my pre operation require but i notice that my husband is kinda jelly about my surgery he was supports me before but now he told me you shouldnt get the bypass and my mom too[emoji22] [emoji22]

Sent from my Z982 using BariatricPal mobile app

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

3 hours ago, psuarez2 said:

I almost finished with my pre operation require but i notice that my husband is kinda jelly about my surgery he was supports me before but now he told me you shouldnt get the bypass and my mom too

Sent from my Z982 using BariatricPal mobile app

May be their fear of a major surgery. They want you to be ok.

My hubby got a bit insecure in this process. Your hubby may fear...That you will have attention from other men, That you may have an affair or leave. If it's the insecurity just be reassuring

I was doing more things on my own and he was feeling left behind....It's a serious change in life. Invite him to go on walks even if he says no.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • Alisa_S

      Gearing up for my consult 01/14! Starting to get a little nervous.
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Goyafigs

      I had VSG 11.20.24 with Miguel Burch, MD Cedars-Sinai and I am 1 month post-op. 
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • DaisyChainOz

      🥳 Jan 1 2025 - Day 1 of Pre Op, surgery on the 16th! 😬😅
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Alisa_S

      Just been waiting until time for my consult with my bariatric surgeon. It's scheduled for Jan 9th. Turns out I won't actually be seeing him. Apparently it'll be with his P.A.             Not sure what to expect. I thought this is where the surgeon would discuss the best surgery option for me. For years I had my heart set on the sleeve, but I've read so many people have issues with reflux - even if they've never had it before - that they've had to be revised to the bypass. I already deal with GERD & take 40 mg of Omeprazole daily, so I started studying about bypass and honestly, it seems like it might be the better choice for me. How can we discuss surgery options if the surgeon is not there?
      What happened at your first consult? Trying to get an idea of what to expect, or maybe I should say, what NOT to expect.
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • rinabobina

      I would like to know what questions you wish you had asked prior to your duodenal switch surgery?
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×